Life with Lauryn

365 days ago we were....

2011-05-22T22:50:00.003-04:00

...packing and re-packing and packing some more. Checking our lists, wiping our tears, calming our fears and thinking we were the luckiest people in the whole free world! Little did we know that our luck was just beginning.
Yes, it's already been a year. One year since we boarded our plane to China. I can't believe. Lauryn is all tucked in, far away in dream land as Kyle and I talk about our trip to China... What a year it's been!
We love you Lauryn, it's impossible to tell you how much, simply because there isn't a word big enough, a sentiment sweet enough, or an equation long enough that would equal the love we have or the joy you have added to our lives.

seriously it's 9:00 already?

2011-05-08T21:08:00.003-04:00

So the laundry isn't done, I didn't sweep this weekend, I didn't dust and I didn't put winter clothes away. All things that were on the LIST this weekend.
But, you know what I did do... I spent my first Mother's day weekend with a great little girl who makes me smile and laugh, gets more of my heart everyday. Who frustrates me the way that a confident, independent two year old can, and who calls me mama!
It was a great weekend. Thanks to my wonderful family. As I am sure you know by now, that my Mom and I are very close. She is my inspiration. I don't know how she continues to be super woman. My Mom has taught me how to live my life without regrets and has talked me through each regret I have ever had, and made them all lessons instead of let downs. She has loved me unconditionally and taught me not to be judgemental. She is a firm believer in that everyone has a story, and there is always a solution. Lauryn also adores her, and it's a yet another dream Lauryn has allowed us to realize! Nana is the greatest word to my Mom, and I love watching them together. She is silly, and fun, and covers Lauryn with kisses. My Mom and our relationship means everything to me. It's reached a whole new level now that we have Lauryn to watch. My Mom has guided me to this point and then let me trust my instincts. She has never said I told you so (even though I am sure she'd like too!!) This year we were able to celebrate being Mom's together. Thank you for the perfume and the beautiful card. It meant so much, and as usual was exactly what I needed!
Kyle has outdone himself! Lauryn and Kyle let me sleep in, made breakfast, had lunch ready when Lauryn and I came home from gymnastics! He then got dinner all prepared and we went for an amazing afternoon of KITE FLYING. IT was AWESOME! So awesome, that I forgot my camera...
On our way to the park, I asked Kyle to get my sunglasses out of the car, he grabbed the garage door opener too, and put everything in his pocket. Well, Lauryn didn't always hold on to the kite, so part of the afternoon was spent chasing our get away kite. Then the three of us lay in the grass with Johnson and watched the kite WAY UP HIGH! Came home, and Kyle didn't have the garage door opener. Lauryn, Johnson and I went into the house. I finished dinner and Kyle went searching... I still can't believe he found it! Then we had a great dinner and Kyle did the dishes, put Lauryn to bed and I am super relaxed and left with a basket full of dirty clothes and memories that have made this weekend worth the last 5 years of waiting for a sweet little angel face that calls me Mama!
Happy Mother's Day to all the Mom's who are waiting, for all the Mom's who can kiss their babies faces tonight, and for all the Mom's who are not with us anymore, you will always be a part of who we are.
Keep Happy
xo

And the winner is.....

2011-04-27T20:53:00.001-04:00

...Krista!
Congratulations! Used a random number generator and you my dear have won!
Please email, or facebook me your mailing address... I will put your loot in the mail!

10,000 and counting! Blog giveaway!

2011-04-17T19:35:00.003-04:00

Our blog has reached 10,000 views! Kinda neat! To celebrate, I would like to have a blog giveaway! 10 little trinkets! 10,000 trinkets might be a bit overwhelming! If you are interested, please leave a comment, with your email address so I can contact you! Good luck! Today is April 17... 10 days from now, (April 27th) a winner (randomly!) will be chosen!

10 things about our Lauryn (again, I could write 10,000, but that's crazy!)
1. Lauryn loves her "kitty" she sometimes ignores Kitty, and sometimes she is crazy obsessed. Adults can touch and play with kitty, other children or animals can't even look at Kitty!
2. Lauryn has started babbling none stop. A LOT of this chatter is only understood by us! However, even though she is a work in progress, she definetly has no trouble being understood!
3. Lauryn is almost potty trained... she isn't consistent, but she is somewhat reliable. Pull-ups are our life now. Diapers at nap and bedtime, and she has been known to remove her diaper before we can get to her in the morning... Wet diapers are a lot easier to deal with than the other option... yuck
4. Lauryn loves to get dressed up! She is a girly girl who will spin in a dress for hours and shoes are very important to her. If she has her mind made up that she wants to wear a certain pair of shoes, you might as well just give in!
5. Lauryn is a natural at gymnastics. From what we can tell, future olympian for sure! She has started gymnastics and adores it!
6. Handy Manny, Mickey Mouse Clubhouse and Special Agent Oso is her tv of choice. She watches these everyday and loves them. She tries to sing along, again in a language all her own, but she gets her point across. Not much of a movie fan yet!
7. She LOVES to talk on the phone. Lauryn even has an old cell phone of ours that she "calls" people on when she is in her car seat!
8. Lauryn has a boyfriend. His name is Bobby! Ahhh, young love!
9. Lauryn adores daycare. She loves her teacher and her classmates and pretty much rules the roost! If Lauryn doesn't feel like napping she won't... simple as that, and if Lauryn doesn't nap, according to her teachers, no one naps! Well, not that bad, but she enjoys climbing over the other kids and stealing blankets and pillows... What a girl!
10. I (although bias) have never met a little angel face that has the ability to steal more of our hearts each and everyday. Lauryn you are a crazy kid that we are so blessed to call ours. You've changed our lives. Thank you for being the most wonderful two year old ever created. We are so proud of you! So looking forward to our future.

So, there you have it! If your interested in another Life with Lauryn give away, leave a comment! Don't forget to include your email address, I will email you, to get your address to mail the lucky winner their prize! Good luck!

And I think to myself... what a wonderful WORLD!

2011-04-17T19:23:00.002-04:00

I know, I know, I know... it's been a looooooonnnnggg time. However, there just doesn't seem to be enough hours in each day. I am back at work...ugh. I do love it, don't get me wrong. The people and the place are simply fantastic. I do miss the comforts and the friends who are the best of the best from my old place of employment, but I never EVER thought I would miss Lauryn like I do. Luckily, Kyle has entered his slow time and gets to spend 3 out of 5 days a week with Lauryn. I get home by 7, and I get the bath/bed time routine. So it is working out. Really it is... it's just I miss my girl more than words can say. I miss those sleepy afternoons, or our shopping trips and so much more. I know that she is not the only child with a working mom. I know that I am not the world's first (and won't be the last) working mom with a toddler at home. I just didn't think it would be this hard. Lauryn is changing so quickly she is loosing her toddlerness and becoming a kid... it's crazy! So, the only thing I can think to do is continue to play the lottery! Come on baby!
On a happier note... we had our 12 month post placement meeting with our social worker. Although Lauryn was ours from day one, we are done with our social worker. Bittersweet again! Sal is a wonderful, helpful, patient man. He helped us realize our dream of bringing home Lauryn. I am thrilled that the struggle to get her home is complete and it was kinda of sad to think how close we became with our social worker and to think that our time with him is done. On the other hand, we have LAURYN at her forever home FOREVER. Pretty great!
We are still the house of sick. Lauryn is thankfully feeling better. Kyle and I on the other hand have continued our "shift" work! One of us will nap, the other one will watch Lauryn! We both have no appetite, so one of us will feed Lauryn and sit with her while she eats, and the other one will fold laundry or make a bed. It's been crazy! I think we see the light at the end of the tunnel... come on sunshine! We need to open the windows and air out the winter germs of this house!
Hope everyone is well!
Keep Happy!
xo

Blog by the wayside...

2011-02-12T20:45:00.003-05:00

It has happened again. Life with Lauryn gets busy and there is just no time to fit everything in. I am a bad blogger... But, I am back to update all that care on what's been going down.
Kyle is doing great. This is a very busy time of year for him. The busiest, and it's showing. I think I saw him a total of 8 waking hours last week. I am a total single mom this time of year. Although I hate it, I know that it's necessary. All part of the business and blah blah blah... I try my best to be supportive. Truthfully I do! However, I do find some days are much harder than others and believe you me, Kyle knows! LOL! Oh well!
Today was a great day! It was Lauryn's one year referral day. She is where she belongs. HOME. What a difference a year can make. My, how she has changed our lives. First, I can't get my head around the social commitments of a two year old. I can't imagine what it will be like when she is a teenager... goodness!
She has added so much joy to our lives it's just so hard to imagine our lives without her. It's like she has always been with us. In our hearts forever, home for just 8 short months. I really do believe in miracles and it's all her doing. Each day that smile lights my life. She is our dream come true and I am so looking forward to our new journey. She's a doll! Don't get me wrong there are days that life isn't all sunshine and lollipops. However, those days do come to an end. At the end of the day I am left with my best friend, my wonderful husband and we are holding the hands of a little girl who has our hearts. One lucky girl I am.
Me on the other hand have been looking for work. Booo... but the time has come to find something. I have a couple of very interesting leads, and look forward to what they might have to offer. Fingers crossed!
So, I am counting down the last couple of weeks of my parental leave. Kyle is counting down the days to his slow time where he will be finally able to spend most days with Lauryn. Thankfully Lauryn is signed up part time in the world's best nursery school. She loves it there and adores her teacher. She won't have to go all the way full time until September. They are very flexible with our schedule and have been a huge help. She will continue part time with some full time days. This will allow Kyle to meet his work commitments. Allowing me to concentrate on my new job where ever that may be. All the while Lauryn is blissfully unaware that anything has really changed.
Lauryn has a 6 week block of speech therapy coming up. Looking forward to that. She has made huge progress and I am sure that we will see lots more! She is one smart cookie!
We met with some of our FOI families for Chinese New Year. It was really great. 4 families and their children met at the CCC in Toronto. They had a lion dance, drummers, and dancers. They had some crafts for the kids to do. It was a really nice afternoon. After the CCC we went for a late lunch and had time to catch up and see what was going on with everyone. You don't realize what a connection you have until you see these families that you shared the most special time of your lives with. We are so lucky to have these families as part of our support. They are a true blessing. Hopefully we will get together again soon.
I think that's a wrap.
Happy one year referral day Lauryn! You are our dream come true. It just keeps getting better!
Keep Happy :)

Merry Christmas, with love from the Thomson's xo

2010-12-24T10:11:00.003-05:00

I will post more later... but we are all in our pj's watching Christmas shows... we are so loving today and I don't want to miss a minute of it!
Lauryn is where she belongs and our family is complete. xo
Merry Christmas everyone. With love from our house to yours xo

Happy Birthday NANA!!!

2010-12-21T14:52:00.002-05:00

The love of a Nana is like nothing no other.
It's fun all the time, it's special and totally unconditional.
I can't tell you the joy that I get seeing you and Lauryn together.
You have your own rhythm with her. Her face lights up when you walk in the room. She gets so excited that she can barely keep her feet on the ground. Nana was Lauryn's second word! The joy that you get from her makes your face light up too. It's magic! Something that I am looking forward to seeing develop into the kind of relationship that you and I share. Now that I am all grown up, I turn to you for different things. What should I do with Lauryn... or you wouldn't believe what Lauryn did today! You always have the time to listen to me and have gone through all the hoops to help bring Lauryn home. Today and always I hope you know just how special you are to me. Thank you for everything and especially for showing the kind of Nana love that I grew up with.
Happy birthday Mom. We love you xo

6 months a family TODAY!

2010-11-24T13:17:00.003-05:00

6 months ago today the most beautiful baby girl was placed in our arms. She is all ours now. Life has certainly changed and each day we get to watch Lauryn grow, and learn something new. She is an amazing little girl who has captured our hearts from the moment we met.
Lauryn, Mommy and Daddy love you so much! You're our biggest achievement. You have completed our family and you're our dream come true! xo

In peace may they rest, may we never forget

2010-11-11T11:08:00.001-05:00

I think this is just beautiful!

A Pittance of Time
Written by Terry Kelly
Published by Jefter Publishing
They fought and some died for their homeland
They fought and some died now it’s our land
Look at his little child, there’s no fear in her eyes
Could he not show respect for other dads who have died?
Take two minutes, would you mind?
It’s a pittance of time
For the boys and the girls who went over
In peace may they rest, may we never forget why they died.
It’s a pittance of time
God forgive me for wanting to strike him
Give me strength so as not to be like him
My heart pounds in my breast, fingers pressed to my lips
My throat wants to bawl out, my tongue barely resists
But two minutes I will bide
It’s a pittance of time
For the boys and the girls who went over
In peace may they rest, may we never forget why they died.
It’s a pittance of time
Read the letters and poems of the heroes at home
They have casualties, battles, and fears of their own
There’s a price to be paid if you go, if you stay
Freedom is fought for and won in numerous ways
Take two minutes would you mind?
It’s a pittance of time
For the boys and the girls all over
May we never forget our young become vets
At the end of the line it’s a pittance of time
It takes courage to fight in your own war
It takes courage to fight someone else’s war
Our peacekeepers tell of their own living hell
They bring hope to foreign lands that the hatemongers can’t kill.
Take two minutes, would you mind?
It’s a pittance of time
For the boys and the girls who go over
In peacetime our best still don battle dress
And lay their lives on the line.
It’s a pittance of time
In Peace may they rest, lest we forget why they died.
Take a pittance of time

Our little ladybug!

2010-10-25T15:56:00.002-04:00

Seriously... could Lauryn be any cuter! This is Lauryn in her Halloween costume. Lovingly made by Grandma T! xo

Trial run - nursery school!

2010-10-22T11:39:00.003-04:00

What a day. First day in a long time that I had to set my alarm.
Lauryn had her trial run at nursery school today! Our day started at 7:00, she was awake when I went into her room, all snugly and warm and still playing with her hair and sucking her lip (the most adorable thing EVER)! She looked so small! So little! We had breakfast and got ready for school! Took some pictures outside with her new Tinkerbell bag. awww.
The drive to school was far to quick and I wasn't ready! It was only going to be an hour... but still!
Got her coat off and inside shoes on. Went over our paperwork and said a very short goodbye. She cried for a bit, no tears, just whined... I left quickly and she was easily distracted!
I went to a near by grocery store to pick up some stuff for dinner. I was hurrying through the cash register got back to the car and I had been gone 18 mins... okay... now what. Got a tea, drove around for what seemed like FOREVER and arrived back at school (5 mins. early) to pick up Lauryn.
The toddler group was playing outside. Lauryn was happy to see me...she gave me a quick hug and then wanted down to play some more. I told her it was time to go home and she LOST her mind... she wanted to stay and play! What a kid.
She absolutely, without a doubt loved every minute of her trial run. 1/2 days on Tuesday and Thursday will be wonderful for Lauryn.
What a kid!

School Daze!

2010-10-21T08:16:00.002-04:00

I can't believe it! We toured a nursery school yesterday and Lauryn loved every minute of it! So, we are in the process of another huge step for our little Lauryn. Lauryn will start school next week! OMG! She will go Tuesdays from 8:30-12:00 and Thursdays from 8:30-11:30.
The school is really awesome. Its a happy, warm, fun place! There was music playing when we got there. About 8 kids in the toddler room. They were playing and signing. There are a couple of other children with speech trouble in the class. This is going to be so good for Lauryn!
Lauryn hit it off right away with another little girl. Kyle sat down and Lauryn's new friend brought over a book for Kyle to read. This little girl was obsessed with Kyles shirt and kept touching the sleeves and rubbing his arm! Everytime she did, Lauryn would very calmly remove her hand from Daddy and give her a look. You know the look! LOL! I was busy filling out paperwork. Kyle said it was so funny.
We were there for about 45 mins. I actually got all teary eyed explaining our journey to Lauryn with the ladies who took me on the tour! LOL!
We left just as lunch was being served. They have a cook on staff who makes wonderful meals for the kids. It smelled so good!
We then went to Tim Hortons to celebrate this milestone!
Lauryn will go for an hour again on Friday and then Tuesday will start officially!
I am so excited for her. I know that this is an important part of her growing and can't wait to see her thrive with her/our new schedule!
First day of school! WOW!

Before I know it... Lauryn will be in college!

2010-10-19T15:12:00.002-04:00

I simply can't believe how fast Lauryn is growing up. She is a little girl who grows in leaps and bounds daily. I left her with my Mom and Dad OVERNIGHT for the first time. I can't believe I actually made it through the night. It was funny! I was looking forward to the break and being able to hang out without Mickey Mouse clubhouse in the background. Had dinner with my cousin and then it hit me. I missed her. I mean REALLY missed her. I called home to get the update from Nana and Grampa and all was well. Truth is, she doesn't miss mommy at all when she is there. I was the same with my nana! Well at Nana's she drank from a straw, got her bangs trimmed and learned a new song! OMG! I was totally impressed!
Thanks Nana and Grampa!
Kyle, Lauryn and I are looking at a nursery school tomorrow! The speach therapist recommended that Lauryn be socialized with other children. What we are thinking is two half days a week. 8:30 - 11:30 one day and then again another day a week, but the second day she will stay for lunch. I am so excited about this. I really believe that this will open up a whole new world for Lauryn and she will continue to thrive.
Awww, my little girl... our little angel going off to school. I know it's only 6.5 hours a week... but still it's huge! Kyle and I are so excited, but at the same time... I often wonder where I can buy a bubble to keep her in!
I started her Christmas stocking. I found a kit on ebay and it's ballerina bears! Super cute! I hope my version looks as nice as the one on the front of the package.
lol!
Hope all is well with you and yours.
Wish us luck on the school tour tomorrow!
Keep Happy!
xo

Such a proud mommy!

2010-10-12T11:13:00.001-04:00

That's me! Today Lauryn did all her flashcards. She recognized all the animals (all but the pig!) and made the right animal sound! Amazing!
Hope everyone had a great Thanksgiving weekend.
xo

What are you Thankful for?

2010-10-09T11:25:00.003-04:00

Wow, just read my post from last year's thanksgiving...
This year I am most thankful for the love and support of my wonderful family. Kyle and I have always been surrounded by support. Through our entire adoption journey, we have been so fortunate for the support of our families.
I hope everyone finds the one thing that they are most thankful for this year, and that you are lucky enough to surround yourself with whatever makes you happiest.
I can't wait to see a highchair at our thanksgiving table.
Hang on Baby Lauryn...not long now.
I am also thankful for my dreams... each night, I see my sweet daughters face. I picture her snuggled down, in footie pj's after a bath between Kyle and I in our bed. Johnson and Peanut at the foot of our bed (clearly, we will need a bigger bed when this becomes reality!) and we all get cozy and tickle her tummy, tell her how much we love her, and how we've waited for these nights!
I truly wonder what the next year might bring.
I can't believe it! Everything that we were hoping for has come true. There are so many nights that Lauryn is running around in her footie pj's and Kyle and I watch in aww at our daughter. Our dream come true!
There will be a highchair at our thanksgiving table this year. This chair will hold the world's most precious little angel. This little angel will be surrounded with love and people who care so much for her. She is fitting right into everything that I have grown up with.
This year I am most thankful for the health of our daughter. I am thankful that she is home. She is happy and healthy and has completed our family. I am thankful for my family and friends who have been there and continue to be there.
Again, my hope for all of you is that this holiday weekend finds you surrounded with the love of your family and friends and your children. If your children aren't home yet. Hang in there. There will be. I can promise you that.
We are blessed beyond measure to have our Baby Lauryn home with us.
Happy Thanksgiving everyone.
xo

Life in the fast lane!

2010-10-06T14:19:00.002-04:00

To say that we've been busy in an understatement. Our lives are filled with so much that the blog has taken a total back seat. I am not happy about this. I think it's important for Lauryn to have something to read that's all about her, and how she came to be and what her firsts were and what, as a family we have to look forward to! So, I promise to be more diligent.

August in review:
My uncle passed away on August 10. He was far to young and it was a very sad time. His death was sudden, and it made me realize many worries that mothers face with a young child. Not only did I have to coordinate a sitter for Johnson, but we had a child to worry about. Kyle was on a business trip, and there was a bunch of things that all needed to fall into place!
I felt it much to early for Lauryn to attend a funeral. Thankfully, a very good friend of the family was able to watch her with her cousin Reid and I don't even think she realized that Mommy was gone!
At the end of August, Lauryn had her cleft palate repaired. She came through with flying colours. We stayed in the hospital two nights. Since then, every day is a little better. That was the big news in August! Lauryn had arm splints for three weeks. She was a trooper. She figured out how to play, eat and totally didn't let the arm splints get in her way. She is a pretty amazing kid! She was also restricted to a diet of pureed food. We are counting the days until she can have a unrestricted diet!

September in review:
September was spent helping Lauryn recover. She is a determined little girl. We spent some time at the park and Lauryn loves to climb and swing! Her aggression is coming to an end. She sometimes (very rarely) will bite. She sometimes hits, but is quick to follow with a kiss better. Her sleeping habits have improved, but still are not consistant. I took Lauryn to my office to meet the friends who are more like family. We had a great time. She loved the Go train and everybody was so happy to meet her. It is amazing the reaction that Lauryn gets. She's a beauty who loves an audience! We went to my Aunts house and she had a ton of fun playing with Sierrah who is three. They kind of played together, but kind of played around each other. Lauryn is a total copy cat and loves to imitate! She was pretty jealous of the time that I spent with Sierrah and didn't like to share her mommy. We worked through it and I now realize the importance of Lauryn spending time with other kids. It's crucial for her! She learns so quickly from other children. With Lauryn in arm splints for most of September, we really established our home time routine. It was nice to be with her at home and get a regular schedule!

Lauryn had her first speech therapy session yesterday! The Therapist, Melissa was impressed with Lauryns understanding. The way that she can follow direction. We can speak to Lauryn in sentences. Things like - Sit on your bum, take your shoes off and put them away. Lauryn will happily do the tasks. What we need to work on is her communication. She will readily immitate anything, we now need for her to vocalize this. We have been teaching Lauryn sign language. Very basic. Kyle and I are by no means fluent! However, the words that Lauryn can sign, help her communicate her needs. Now we need to introduce the words to make sure that Lauryn is also verbalizing these things. Its an important step in her development and one that I am trying my best to find overwhelming! Kyle and I both want so badly to give Lauryn everything. What parents don't! However, Lauryn will learn at her own pace with us providing a consistant routine that will allow her to reach her own potential! Right? lol!
So... there you have it. This is what we've been up to!
I still find it hard to believe that she is ours. The love that we feel in watching her grow and how our family dynamics have changed is pretty incredible.
A blogging friend of mine and her husband leave tomorrow for China! Wishing them all the love and luck in the world. It's an incredible journey! Safe travels.

Keep Happy!
xo

Life with Lauryn is

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L - Loving every hug and kiss!
A - Always keeps me on my toes!
U - Unbelievable that shes all ours!
R - Really? I'm a mom to a beautiful two year old?
Y - Yawn... yep, ready for bed before she is...again!
N - Nothing beats waking up to hear her giggle!

Our little lady is two today!

2010-07-12T22:46:00.003-04:00

What a great day we all had today. It was non stop celebration today. Today Lauryn turned two. It was just us, Daddy, Johnson and Peanut, and it was a great day.
We had a family party for Lauryn on Saturday. It was simple, fun and the perfect afternoon. We had ice cream, cake and lemonade and Lauryn had a ball! We were at a playground by the lake for a good portion of the afternoon and I don't think I saw Lauryn more than 5 mins. Our families and friends have taken so strongly to Lauryn that every chance they get the are just lovin her! It's awesome! We can't remember what life was like without her. I can't imagine what we did with all our time!
Thanks to everyone who was able to come and join us in the park! We had a great day.

To our little lady,
Words can't describe how you've changed our lives! Mommy and Daddy are so pleased that you are home safe and sound and are thriving. We love to watch you play and laugh and learn each day.
Don't know who is responsible for us meeting, but we both feel blessed beyond measure to finally call you our daughter. You are everything that we've hoped for. Our dream come true. Each day gets better and everyday we love you more. You have completed our world and have added so much love to our lives.
Happy 2nd birthday to our little lady! We love you so much!
xo

The cake...

2010-07-09T17:03:00.002-04:00

So far so good. 4.5 hours of intense cake making and I am exhausted!

A buffet of updates!

2010-07-04T22:08:00.008-04:00

Well I have slowly come to realize that this blog is becoming low on the things to do list. I hope that this will change and slowly but surely things have been returning to a new normal.
Lauryn is a bright eyed spunky girl with a quick smile who has warmed our entire house. She is clever, funny and ... pretty much perfect! The last month has taught us all a lot about ourselves and our girl!
Canada Day was a huge success. Our neighbours had fireworks and Lauryn was sleeping... Kyle and I ( well, I!!!) woke her up to celebrate. She wasn't sure what to think at first, and then she was ooooohhhing and awwwing and WOWing... pretty cute!
She loves to swim. Daddy bought her a pool that she is in almost everyday. The problem is, you can't get her out!
She is a great eater and will try anything once!
Johnson and Lauryn our becoming fast friends. Johnson loves to greet her in the morning with a big kiss and she doesn't mind at all. I am not sure who drools more!
We had our appointments at sick kids. Lauryn's palate will be repaired in September. Although I can't imagine how heart breaking this will be, we all know it's a necessary procedure to correct her speech. She has come a long way and we couldn't be more proud. Bedtime is still an issue. She doesn't like to be in her crib by herself. We stay in her room with her for a bit and then slowly try to make our exit... fireworks aren't helpful! LOL!
The summer to date has been very good. We have had a lot of family and friends stop by. Lauryn will be two on July 12, so we are busy planning her birthday party! We will do it in a park with cake, ice cream and lemonade. Something simple and good old fun. She has a room full of toys, and plays with certain things a lot! We keep some toys in our family room that our her current favourites and just keep renewing the stash! We put some away and bring some new ones downstairs. This has worked really well! Kyle's Mom bought Lauryn an electric jeep for her birthday! Can you believe it! She saw it last weekend and thought it was pretty cool! We will bring it home with us after her party!
Other breaking news... My parents bought Lauryn a potty and guess what... she peed! This was a total coincidence and my Mom says she was totally surprised when she actually did it. Too funny!
This week will be spent trying to make a 2 year olds birthday cake and party a success! Wish us luck!
Keep Happy... our hearts have never been more full!
xo

Home is totally where the heart is...

2010-06-12T14:50:00.004-04:00

We are home! We love being home! We love our home! We love our home! There is no place like home!
After an amazing adventure we are settling into our new life. Lauryn is a blessing beyond measure.
The airport was great! We had many family and friends who travelled a great distance to celebrate with us. Lauryn was all smiles and had a great time meeting her new family! Thanks so much for being there! It made coming home that much more special.
Our first Saturday home, I got a call from a dear friend who told me to get the paper outside my door!?! I did and there was a message to look at page B5. There it was... Lauryn's adoption notice! Awww! I can't tell you how special that was! Thanks SOO much for everything. You guys are just amazing.
My parents had stocked our cupboards and fridge with every necessity and indulgence that we needed. I didn't sleep at all the first night.
Lauryn has visited with many friends and family and there is still so many more to meet. She is doing fantastic! Everyday we notice much more about her as she discovers the world around her.
Sorry it's taken so long to post, there has just been so many things to do!
I promise to be more diligent! LOL!
Nap time is coming to an end. Gotta run.
But first... Thanks to everyone for making our home coming special. Thanks to my parents who have gone above and beyond! Thanks to Kyle's mom for the cars are the airport... they were and still are a hit. Thanks to Kyle's sister Auntie K for dinner on Saturday... we missed Swiss chalet! thanks to Auntie S for putting the wine in the freezer. Thanks to Uncle T and Aunt J for driving our luggage home. Thanks to Auntie D and Auntie S for coming to the airport and hanging helping with the car seat lol! Thanks to cousin Claire and her parents for being extra helpful at the airport with Lauryn! Thanks to Auntie A and N for a nice home coming dinner and cousin Declan and Alister for the play date! Thanks to Auntie N and Uncle D and Mom for the birth notice. Thanks to Gramma for having the kleenex ready! Thanks to everyone for all the well wishes. Telephone calls and emails have been coming at a rapid pace. We love you all and are so happy to be sharing the home coming of our little angel with you.
We have another shower tomorrow in Burlington. Can't wait to introduce Lauryn to these fine friends who are more like family!
Such a wonderful feeling!
Also thanks to our travel group! We met some amazing people! Looking forward to catching up with them soon.
Keep Happy!
xo

all is well in China...

2010-06-01T22:38:00.002-04:00

Just had a quick note from the Thomson family to let us all know that everything is great and they can't wait to be home. The past couple of days have been very busy doing 'touristy' things with the other families. By the time they get back to the hotel, the business centre is closed so they have been unable to email and update us in detail.
Looking forward to their arrival on Thursday - Air Canada / Terminal 1 at 6:45pm.
Signed, a very proud, excited, anxious Nana!

nothing new - a 'chill out' day

2010-05-30T09:58:00.001-04:00

Good afternoon,
We had a very relaxing day.
Lauryn loves to feed herself! She ate very well today at breakfast.
We just finished up our paperwork and took our group photos.
We are going to go give Lauryn some lunch and then we are off to walmart!
Should be interesting.
Just a quick post for now.
I will write more tomorrow.
With lots of love.
The Thomson's xo

Day 7 in China - Back in Beijing

2010-05-29T08:10:00.005-04:00

Good evening from China.
What a day.
Lauryn had a wonderful day today. She is giggling a lot! She is making faces and having a great old time.
We had breakfast and boarded the bus for a very busy day. We have two guides in Beijing. Fay and Vivean. They are wonderful girls. They explained so much about the city today. Beijings traffic is so heavy that there are still restrictions on who can drive when. The weekends, everyone can drive. However, during the week it's restricted. Monday people's license plates starting with one and ending with 8 are allowed to drive, Tuesday 2 and 7.... and so on. Can you imagine?
We started our day in a major traffic jam. No surprise! Then we headed to the Jade factory! WOW! it's just beautiful. I guess there is a time honoured tradition to choose a piece of Jade for your child. Kyle and I chose a laughing Budda for Lauryn. Wow! It was pretty special. We got to do some shopping and got some great stuff.
We then headed to the great wall. This is the only thing that I wanted to see. I was in awe. It's so big. The stairs are so steep and the walk was incredible. Poor Kyle had Lauryn strapped to him. The faster he moved, the more behind I got! Poor guy. I gave him a hard time for walking so far ahead! LOL! Guess I forget that he has a little weight... dead weight strapped to him!
We were at the great wall for about two hours. On our way back down, this woman came out of no where and started kissing lauryn, then they made us pose for pictures! They all had to take turns with us. It was hysterical! They love Lauryn. Lauryn was only to happy to participate! Cutie!
It was really very cool, and a sight that I will never forget. We took a ton of pics!
Back on the bus and headed to the friendship store for lunch. I am pleased to report that lunch was crazy good. We had vegetables... believe it or not, I have missed broccoli and carrots and just good plain food! It was great. Lauryn cracked us up. She had a piece of broccoli in one had and a french fry in the other. After lunch we headed to the friendship store basement and there was more shopping. LOTS and LOTS. They actually have chinese prices and white prices... go figure!
Boarded the bus again and went to the olympic grounds. Glad to have had the chance to see it. Kyle got off the bus, and Lauryn and I just stayed put. It was very hot and she was comfy and playing with an empty bottle. Kyle came back with a gold medal! His first bardering (sp??) experience and he won! 10 yuan! The vendor wanted 25! LOL!
Finally back at the hotel. Kyle is upstairs with Lauryn and she is happily playing with her stacking cups and Elmo cell phone. Kyle and I are exhausted and both have a cold. She couldn't be happier with all her toys and just playing.
When I was done emailing yesterday I went back to the room and all of Lauryn's toys were all picked up. I thanked Kyle and he said that Lauryn did it. Sure enough she cleaned up all her toys and put them in the garbage can. I guess at the orphanage everyone had a job... they must of had bins to store their toys. To cute.
We gave her a bath yesterday and she sat down in the tub and giggled and splashed and put her face in the water. She is really starting to come into her own. She screamed when it was time to get out. ahhh.
I have been giving her a massage with baby cream after her bath. SHE LOVES IT! She was cooing and saying mama when I did it last night! Enough to make you melt!
Alright. All for now. Love you all, and we will talk to everyone soon.
Hope to get a chance to send more pictures soon.
Tomorrow is paper work finale! Busy morning and then just a hang out day. The group can go to the zoo, but we have decided to just have a hang out day. So looking forward to it!
Love to you from us!
Miss you xo

Day 6 in China...

2010-05-28T08:14:00.000-04:00

Well here we are at the close of another day!
We are safely back in Beijing and couldn't be happier. The room that we have is MUCH nicer and MUCH MUCH bigger! It is so strange for Kyle and I to have Lauryn. It's certainly not about us anymore!
We had breakfast today and LAuryn did better than ever. She has finally learned to take bites and has stopped with the hoarding. Unless of course it's something she really likes! She had pizza for the first time tonight and was pretty happy with herself. She still has some tantrums, but this is to be expected. She is really happy and VERY busy! The gleam in her eye means trouble FOR SURE! Kyle told her today that she just keeps getting cuter and it's true.
Boarded the bus around for the Guangzhou airport today around 8:15 and headed to the airport. Lauryn sat with Daddy for most of this trip. Not sure who was more happy about this!
Got to the airport and passed through security. Said goodbye to our wonderful guide Ava. She was really wonderful!
It was kind of sad to leave behind everything that Lauryn knows. However, we are excited to bring her with us as we are that much closer to home!
Lauryn did great on the flight. She was a bit uncertain about some of the noises that the plane makes. She had a sucker for take off and thought that was just great!
She fell asleep on me, and had a hard time getting totally comfortable. The plane had a lot of empty seats and we were able to spread out. She slept for about an hour and tweny minutes. She woke up happy, but in desperate need of a diaper change and was VERY unhappy at the state of the facilities. She didn't like it at all. But, we managed and are much more prepared for the big trip home! LOL! Fingers crossed!
There was a elderly Asian lady sitting behind us. Every noise that Lauryn made, she would peak around the seat to make sure I was tending to her. At first I thought this was kinda weird, then it was endearing. People are so interested in our little family. Especially the locals. After sitting for so long. Lauryn was totally ready to stretch her legs. Kyle went to gather our luggage and Lauryn and I walked around. She stops people dead... lots of airport workers would stop and talk. Everyone thinks she is a little boy despite my efforts in trying to dress her in as much pink as possible. A waitress told me that the Chinese believe that if a little girl looks like a little boy when they are young, they will grow up to be very beautiful women!?!
Boarded another van/bus and headed to the place where our journey began... Beijing. Our room is so much better. We actually laid all of the toys we bought for Lauryn out on a blanket and she ran around happier than ever. She loves to explore. She was thrilled with Kyle's empty coke bottle... just like Johnson was when we brough him home! LOL!
Kyle went to get some essentials and brought us Pizza Hut for dinner.
All is well.
Super excited, tomorrow we go to the Great Wall! How incredible. Can't wait to see everyone with their babies! Our whole travel group is together tomorrow. Should be interesting.
Lauryn discovered that she can walk on her tippy toes today. She also shakes her head for "NO" and giggles like crazy when we tell her no! Oh oh!
She has started to imitate my cough too! Crazy kid!
Feeling much more relaxed today.
Kyle said that it's interesting to him, when we carry Lauryn, she doesn't hand on anymore... I guess this is a trust thing.
She has also discovered her tongue!!! She has a tongue like Gene Simmons! Long and pointy! To funny!
We send our love to all of you and can't wait to introduce our crazy kid to you all!
Night night!
xo

Days 4 & 5 in China...

2010-05-27T06:53:00.000-04:00

Day Four...
This was a trying day. Lauryn is a very busy little girl. There is so much that is so brand new to her that she is taking everything in stride. She started some new behaviours today that really tested both Kyle and I. She was hitting, throwing things, and if something was taken away from her she would start to cry... big big tears, if we'd give it back to her... all was well. Tears stopped instantly! hmmmm... She also bit my t-shirt. I am sure she is just as frustrated with us. We both sometimes think that she is trying so hard to tell us something. She tried McDonalds french fries for the first time and LOVED THEM! I mean love them! She tried ice cream too. Not a big fan! I think because her palate is also affected, she gets instant brain freeze. Not sure she had ever had something so cold in her little mouth. Bedtime was difficult. We went to the passport office. Lauryn fell asleep and wasn't too happy to be woken up to get her picture taken. It went okay. The security people thought it was hysterical! I had my first mommy meltdown! Everything is just so different here. Kyle worked on both of us and then went to get a well deserved massage. Went for authentic Thai food...again VERY different. I am such a Canadian.... I had rice, and fried pork! LOL! Kyle is much more adventurous... he tried everything! So proud of him!

Day Five - MUCH BETTER DAY

Lauryn got up at 3 this morning and cried for the first time in the morning. Got her up and out of her crib, changed her and we just cuddled. She adores her stacking cups. She played with them and woke Kyle up! She went back to sleep around 4:30 and I got ready for the day.
Today we went to the Guangzhou Safari! What a day!
Our hired car and guide met us in the lobby at 8:00.
Lauryn was happy after breakfast for a bit. She was pretty tired, so a little grumpy. Kyle and I have both decided that we need to push her a little to experience everything with us. She needs to know that no matter where we are, we are her safety. We will keep her safe.
We got to the park (kinda of like Toronto Zoo) around 8:50... the gates didn't open until 9:15. It was hotter then hot... 38 degrees at 9:00 in the morning! We looked around the gift shop. didn't buy anything but water! Lauryn is pretty freaked out buy stuffed animals! I am sure this will change. Her first meeting with Johnson and Peanut should be interesting!
Got in the gates and rented a stroller. Which Lauryn LOVED. Not sure if she has ever been in one before, but it was a hit!
We saw all kinds of animals. They had a animal kindergarden. It was increadible. Baby tigers and bears, monkey, deer... they were so cute. You can get so close to them it's pretty amazing! Lauryn thought this was great! She just was all eyes and kept pointing and giggling.
You can feed alot of the animals too. For 10 yuan, you can buy a bunch of leave and feed Giraffes! It was amazing. Probably my favourite part. We also fed a bunch of banana's to a baby elephant... The animals are very well looked after. Especially the tigers and the panadas. After walking around, we took a train around another part of the park - this part is like African Lion Safari. IT was pretty neat. Lauryn tried very hard to fall asleep and was successful for the last 10 mins! Poor girl! They were amazing to see. Nice park and we all had a good day.
We got back to the hotel, Lauryn fell asleep in the car and was a tired, hot, grumpy girl when we got back to our room she had her meltdown! This time she was kicking and crying... am I a bad mom? I kinda thought it was funny! She did the cutest thing ever today. I have mentioned that she likes to imitate things. Well, after I fed her, I was giving her kisses and telling her... Lauryn Kisses... she put her sweet little mouth in an "o" shape and leaned in towards my face and then giggled...ahhhh enough to make me cry... The she threw herself on her tummy and fell asleep. Kyle left to go and try and find shoes... Kyle wasn't successful. Everything was too small! Imagine if I went looking! YIKES! Kyle got back to the hotel and I left to send this email. Lauryn is still sleeping.
We are going AMERICAN for dinner tonight. There is an Italian restuarant that we can walk too. Very excited about this!
We leave Guangzhou tomorrow morning at 8:30. Our flight is at 11:00 and then we go back to Beijing to meet the rest of our group and their children. We are so excited to see everyone with their kids, and to show off our beautiful girl! she is pretty amazing.
I will update more when I can.
With lots of love from this side of the world!
xo

2010-05-26T05:08:00.001-04:00

First photos from China!

2010-05-26T04:48:00.001-04:00

Day 3 in China...

2010-05-25T09:56:00.001-04:00

Well, here it is, bed time at day 3. Here is the events of the day.
Thanks Mom for keeping everyone in the loop, please continue to keep Kyle's family updated. He was concerned about this.
How are things at home! We miss home!
DAY 3...

Started at 4 in the morning, Kyle couldn't sleep and I was in and out. Got up when he did. Had a nice long shower and felt great! Lauryn slept until about 6 ish. She woke up with some babble and then started a little cry but nothing to big. Then the smiles started!
We went for breakfast around 6:30. Before we left Lauryn had some oatmeal, a bit of goldfish and some milk. At the restaurant she had some watermelon, a boiled egg and some chinese porridge! She tried some french toast and some apple juice. It was pretty funny... she took a big bite of watermelon and the juice came out her nose! She wasn't sure about apple juice... the first drink made her shiver! Then I watered it down and it was much better.
She had some trouble getting to sleep last night. She is amazed by all the lights and is a big wide eyed girl who stops herself from going to sleep, I think she wants to see more and more and more! Its pretty amazing to see. We both watched her for a long time and then just listened to her little baby sounds.
We had to meet in the lobby for 8:30. Back to the adoption centre! The adoption was finalized today! She is all ours. We met with a notary and another government official. We had about 10 - 12 questions from each of them. Things like Are you happy with this child? Do you want to make this child yours? DUH!! I would love to see someone try to take her away! Kyle is totally in awe of her. I love seeing them together. It really is amazing!
Lauryn got her land legs that's forsure! Her legs are very skinny and not strong at all. Today we put some running shoes on her. The adoption centre is a very big room and she went for it! She ran and walked and exhausted both Kyle and I! Our guide laughed at me! We had to take our first family photo. Something for the orphanage I think... I didn't know that it was our turn, then Ava came to get us and I was a sweaty hot mess! Told her I needed time to fix myself up! She thought that this was hysterical! You should see my hair. It is so humid that the its just crazy... nothing works! Oh well! LOL!
At the adoption centre we had some time to sit and really get to know our girl. She is so smart! She imitates EVERYTHING! She now says mama!!! YUP! She does! And she can wave bye - bye! The nanny told us yesterday to give her soft food. Her palate is effected and hardfood might bother her... not our girl. She will try everything! If she doesn't like it... no big deal she will spit it out!
After everything was finalized, we got back in our van and headed to the Chinese equivalent to walmart... OMG, what an experience. They sell everything there... EVERYTHING and it's all cheap, bad quality. Dawn (the lady that also adopted, and is staying in the same hotel) well, she loves to buy her older daughter shirts from these stores. The english is terrible. The one she bought today said M KOOKS... My Happy Hollida?? What the heck that is suppose to mean, I will never know. Kyle also bought some eggroll flavoured pringles... gross!
We loaded up on diapers, rice cereal and bottled water. I also bought some baby food - fruit mostly. I was worried b/c Lauryn hadn't pooped yet! We toyed with the idea of a stroller. We will be doing a lot of sight seeing in Beijing. Instead we bought a baby carrier.
Got back to the hotel and Lauryn was overtire, hot, hungry and pretty grumpy. She cried big tears for the first time! Then wanted to be held. Tried to settle her down and it eventually worked, but it took both of us! I think we have a lot to learn! But, we did just fine. She napped for about 2 hours. Kyle and I did too!
It was great! Starting to get use to the time change!
When she got up we changed her bum, and she had done what she was suppose to! Kyle said it smelled really bad... this cold I have prevented me from smelling anything. So I got to change her! Lauryn is pretty cranky today! I think the last two days have been totally overwhelming and she is just as tired as we are. I wonder what is going on in her mind! Then Kyle tested out the new baby carrier while I got ready for dinner. Cool!
She was pretty funny. I have some pictures. I think Kyle was pretty pleased with himself. He just adores her!
We met with Dawn, Lynne, Quinnlynne and Lindsay for our first authetic chinese dinner. It wasn't nearly as crazy as a I thought. You order for the table and all the dishes are put on a big lazy suzzane and shared. Well, Lauryn is a messy eater and certainly doesn't like anything being taken away from her. She had a minor melt down. It was pretty funny, we ordered some Teryaki noddles, well we were all pretty useless getting the noodles out of the bowl onto our plates so the restaurant sent over a lady to give us a hand! When we sat down, another waitress came over to ask me if I would like a fork! Then she came back to ask me if I would like a knife! LOL!
After lauryn's minor melt down we went back to the room. We are pretty tired again and Lauryn is cranky! Kyle went out to see if her could find some cold water. There isn't any such thing as cold in China. Everything is luke warm. Well Kyle went for his adventure, I tackled bath time alone...
It went okay... She cried... a lot! However she was standing in the tub holding on to me and wanted to sit down... and then she would cry harder....Got the job done and dressed her and combed her hair. I put baby lotion on her for the first time. She thought that was pretty cool! she giggles at a lot of things. Baby lotion was a hit. She smells fantastic...I can even smell her!
So, I have just come down to the business centre for the update! We all send out love and we are telling Lauryn of all the family she has at home who can't wait to meet her. You guys are going to be over the moon in love.
Tomorrow we get her passport and don't have to meet until 3.
We are going to meet for breakfast and then head to Beijing Street. I guess this is just packed with kids clothes vendors! Should be an interesting day! I will write more tomorrow.
I hope to have some pictures tomorrow too. I working on it!
The 3 of us send out love!
We love you all more then you could ever know or possibly understand! It seems so weird not having our family with us at such a special time! Can't wait to introduce you!
We love you! Sweet dreams... sorry, sweet dreams for us... have a great day to you!
Thanks for everything.
xo

Day 2 -posted by Mom - Lauryn is where she belongs!!!!

2010-05-24T08:56:00.002-04:00

Hi there,
I knew you would be waiting patiently for this email. I am at the business centre in Guangzhou. It has been an unbelievable day. I am exhausted... we both are... so mind the spelling! LOL!
We slept well last night. We both just kinda crashed. Our day started at 4 a.m. Wasn't really too bad because it felt like 4 in the afternoon. We both got ready and waited in the lobby for everyone. We were the first ones downstairs and eager to start our day. We boarded the bus with about 14 other people. We had breakfast on the bus. While we ate Yulin told us what to expect and how to handle our children. She says that they are all different and she doesn't know what to tell us on how they will react. We got to the airport around 6:30. Dawn, her sister Lynne and Dawn's daughter (adopted 5 years ago) Quinnlynne were flying to our province. I can't tell you what a relief it was to have them there. There are sooooo nice! We found a coffee spot and sat and got to know each other. It was so funny. Kyle asked for cream in his coffee... you know what he got... WHIPPED CREAM! LOL! He was a sport about it and said it wasn't too bad!
We played crazy 8's and UNO with Quinnlynne and watched the clock, our plane didn't board until 8:45! We did some shopping. I found chedder goldfish! Kyle bought some crazy pork thing.. gross.. went through security and waited for our plane.
The day seemed to drag and drag. Beijing to Guangzhou is a 3 hour flight... what a crazy flight. I cant tell you how weird it is to be in a place where you are the minority! Landed safely and got off the plane to meet our guide Ava. Now things were getting exciting. We boarded a bus and off to the hotel.
Ava told us we had about 10 mins. We had to get all our papers in order (thankfully ours were already) bring one gift for the nanny, and meet in the lobby. Things were moving so fast. Kyle and I still had to exchange our money. We met in the lobby and Ava wisked us off to the bank of china. It was crazy. They took our passports inspected every bill. over and over again. We left with literally a shopping bag full of yuen. We were 20 mins. away from the adoption centre and needed every minute to count our cash and get them in the right envelope! It was so quick. We left the bus in the middle of a very busy road. Crossed the street. AND THIS WAS IT.
The building is very run down. The room where all the babies were was very bright and comfy. I have seen it online before. Ava came to us and told us that our baby was here! I lost it for a minute. Kyle too, and then we were signing papers and counting money and it was all such a whirlwind.
THEN AVA came back and got Dawn to be introduced to her baby. Her baby's name is Lindsay and the second Lindsay saw Dawn she WAILED... I have never heard a baby cry like that before!
Ava came back and told us it was our turn. Kyle and I were sweaty and teary and shaky and then we saw her. My tears stopped immediately. Kyle started filiming and it was love at first sight. There was no tears from anyone. She looked at me and hit the chinese doll! LOL! and then I reached for her and she giggled... Mom, she is the most precious thing in the whole world.
She took to us both right away. Her palate is affected. Not a big deal, but it was nice to see her. She was clean and just beautiful. She was weraring little flower sandals, a white t-shirt and pink short overalls. Adorable. We played for a long time while our paper work was reviewed. We got to speak to her nanny, not the lady in the picture. We were there for probably an hour or so. She has since reached for both Kyle and I. Time to get back on the bus. She was all eyes. She is very alert and loves to look around. She also loves goldfish! Back at the hotel we did our first diaper change... we put it on backwards.. we are so tired!
Then Ava came back to do more paperwork. The whole time Lauryn played with her stacking cups!When Ava left I was giving Lauryn more fish and she put like 10 in her mouth... her face got all red and she started to choke! Nothing to serious, but she's a little hoarder! LOL!Very common I guess!
Kyle went to the store to get some juice and water and milk. I was playing with her on the bed, she reached up for me and wanted to be cuddled. I cuddled her and rubbed her back and she fell asleep! Kyle came back and we just stared at her.
She started to stir about 40 mins. later and then started to cry. Very easily settled. She had some mashed banana, rice cereal, half a bun and a strawberry yogurt bar for dinner. We attempted a bath...she was very nervous. Kyle was awesome. He brough her stacking cups in the tub and eventually she sat down. She let us know that enough was enough. We wrapped her in a towel. Put socks on and clean jama's with a clean bum and she is a whole new kid. She adores the blanket that you made her! I left her lying on Kyle's tummy all wrapped up and falling asleep!It has all been very natural. Kyle is a natural and she adores him!
When I was giving her dinner, she kept putting her mouth toward me... I would say No, Lauryn in your hand. She would sit back down and place her hand out... adorable. We both think that she is very smart. She imitates EVERYTHING! No words yet, but she bablles!
You guys are going to be head over heels! I really think she will come off the plane all smiles! Can't wait to come home. So there you go! Day 2 update and all is well!
We are back at the adoption centre tomorrow and then shopping! Should be interesting. Thanks for taking care of the boys! We miss everyone and although this was a crazy life changing day, we both want to come home! LOL!Have a good night... er... morning!
Lots of love to everyone. Have a safe trip home. I will send pictures when I can.
Love ya. xo

First message from China! - posted by Mom xo

2010-05-23T11:45:00.000-04:00

Ni Hao!! We made it!
We are safe and sound in our hotel's business center. The Beijing Airport was really big! No air conditioning just big vents in the roof. The people have all been very nice. There was 4 couples on our flight. 2 of them have children with them. One couple adopted their little girl 5 years ago. They are all at the hotel.
Our flight was LONG, but good. We ate really well. Kyle and I both got some sleep and are all caught up on the latest movies. We have to meet our group at 5:15 AM in the lobby, our flight for Guangzhou leaves at 9, I think! We have all our documents and are ready to go and get our girl. We are really tired, but super excited.
Beijing traffic is like something out of a movie. Its so busy and people cut each other off and honk after to say Thanks! Random!It is already dark out and it's really humid. There is a light rain but the temp. is still 35! HOT and Humid! We got the missing travel documents and have done some bag re-organizing and that's about it. We will leave in the morning. Hope we can write more. If not... we will take lots of pictures. We are back at the presidential plaza on Friday. If I can't email from the next hotel, I will get you guys all caught up on Friday! Hope you can wait that long.
Other then a little bitchy, we are very excited! We can't believe it's tomorrow! OMG!
Hope things are well at home. We are already missing the comforts of home.
Give our love to everyone. Please take care of our boys. Hope the fireworks aren't to loud!
Lots of love from half way around the world! We love you very much! Talk to you soon!
One more sleep... well kinda a half sleep!
Love you, have a wonderful night... or morning... or whatever!xo

Finally!

2010-05-22T07:32:00.002-04:00

When another door closes, another one opens!
We are off to bring our girl home!
I can't believe the day has finally come!
This time tomorrow, we will be landing in China!
48 hours away from meeting our daughter!
OMG! My Mom will be posting for me while we are gone.
Stay tuned!
Mommy and Daddy are really close now baby Lauryn!
See you soon!
Keep Happy!
xo

Times, they are a changin'

2010-05-19T09:01:00.002-04:00

Well, what a weekend. Our family threw us one heck of a party! It was like a Jack and Jill / Shower combo! My Mom should be a party planner. We had a ton of friends and family. Their generosity was overwhelming! Thanks to each and everyone of you for making our weekend so special.
I have said a million times that we have the best family and friends and we are surrounded by such a good support system! This weekend confirmed this once again. Everyone came in a good mood and ready to have a great time. Boy did we!
Thanks to everyone for all of their help and gifts! You are all so appreciated!
Also, today is my last day of work... wow!
I am on vacation for a couple of weeks and then I start parental leave! Wow! I never ever thought that this day would come! I am so excited... kinda of shell shocked too!
Kyle and I have also decided that I will not return to work! Awhile ago, separation packages were offered. I took the opportunity when it presented itself and haven't looked back since. It was always the plan to work closer from home when Lauryn was home.
So, I am mixed with mixed emotions today. I say goodbye to a career that I loved and was rewarding and fulfilling and certainly kept me busy!
I am also saying goodbye to a fabulous group of people that are more like family then friends! I know we will be part of each others lives for a long time!
The next chapter is beginning! I can't believe it.
I feel ready... although nervous and anxious and a bit scared!
We have been waiting for this for so long and now it's right around the corner!
Here we go...
Keep Happy!
xo

Happy Mother's Day!

2010-05-09T13:12:00.002-04:00

To my MOM,
You are my everything. Words can't describe how special you are and how much you mean to me. You've been there for everything. All the heartbreaks, all the ups and downs and still have a way of finding a solution to make things okay. Growing up, you gave me one day for a pity party... then it was back to looking at things positively and counting our blessings. Thanks for holding my hand and making me stronger. Thanks for knowing the right time to let me figure things out on my own. Hope you know how full my heart is, and how wonderful seeing you as a Nana will be. You are so good at being a Mom... I have no doubt that you will be the kind of Nana that my Nana was... we are going to have to take Lauryn aside and prepare her for leaving Nana's house just like you had to do with me.
Thanks Mom! Hope you know how much you mean to us.

Kyle surprised me with a beautiful photo album and a letter from Lauryn! awwww.
This is Lauryn's letter on my Happy Mother's to be day:

Dear Mommy,
Although we have not officially met yet, I feel as though I need to tell you something on this special day. I asked Daddy to help me. I don't know how to write until you teach me!
I am so overwhelmed with joy that I will have you in my life. Through all the good and the bad, the boo-boos and heartaches and all those kind of things that Mommy's make special. I hope you like the gift that Daddy and I decided on. I am looking forward to filling it up with my new family and all the happy times, and special moments that we will share.
We love you.
Love the both of us!
xo
So thoughtful! Thanks to my darling for making this day special. To my girl, Mommy's coming. I can't wait to hold you. You've been in my heart for years... soon you will be in my arms. xo

For all the Mom's who are still waiting. I know the struggle and have come out stronger on the other side. Stay strong and positive your miracle is waiting. It will happen before you know it.
Keep Happy!

Not long now!
xo

And the beat goes on...

2010-04-29T14:38:00.003-04:00

Don't you find it funny... when you are waiting for something huge to happen. Some date, or a party, the world just keeps on going... does the world not realize that we leave in like 24 days to pick up our DAUGHTER! Jeesh...
Anyways, it's been awhile since I have had any time to post! Although there isn't much to tell. We hare happily preparing for our trip to China. Kyle and I are both a little freaked out, nervous, excited, scared, overwhelmed and extremely excited!We are surrounded with so much love and support, it's crazy! Some people are truly as excited as we are. Kyle has become MISTER fix it! To know Kyle (and to love Kyle) you need to understand how NOT handy he is. I am not writing anything that he doesn't know to be true! He does not have a "fix it" bone... never has. Over the years I have come to appreciate Kyle's clumsy, spastic attempts at fixing things... that's what the yellow pages are for... right? Well in the last little while, Kyle has fixed a window, changed a VERY high up outdoor light bulb, gotten rid of birds that were building nests in our vents (thankfully no eggs yet!!!) These birds were building nests in our vents from our house to the outside... we could hear them in the walls!!. Kyle has also washed our outside windows, changed the handle on a stubborn toilet that kept running, and CHANGED OUR KITCHEN TAPS! I know! Amazing!Couldn't' get over it.We have had lengthy discussions about Lauryn. She is just so precious. I have organized all her doctors visits for when she is home. I can't wait to get her all set up.One thing that is stressing me out totally is that we are still waiting for her citizenship part one application to be processed. We can't travel without this... makes me nervous. The call centre reps thinks I am nuts! I have called at least 6 times, and have also sent a letter with a copy of our e-tickets as proof we leave on May 22nd. Getting nervous about this one.I am wrapping things up at work. 12 more days until my vacation starts! I will be on vacation for almost 4 weeks... then my parental leave kicks in. YAHOO! Off until Feb. 26! What will I do? So excited about this, you really haven't any idea!This weekend I am locking myself in our spare room, starting to pack and get organized! I am really looking forward to doing all Lauryn's laundry... I wonder if I will feel the same in a year or two! LOL!There you have it folks... all for now.Keep happy!xo

Patience of a Saint... or not!

2010-04-16T08:57:00.003-04:00

Is not a term you would use to describe me! Kyle maybe...

Just in case you would like to join our countdown...

38 days
or
3,283,200 seconds
or
54,720 minutes
or
912 hours
or
5 weeks (rounded down)

Until Lauryn is in our arms! OMG! We will meet Lauryn on Monday May 24, 2010.

She will be 1 year, 10 months, 12 days old when we meet her.

Kyle and I stare at each other a lot in pure wonderment! I know we certainly aren't the only couple that has gone through this. We are just so proud of us! lol!
Keep Happy!
xo

What are we doing in 39 days...

2010-04-13T20:02:00.002-04:00

...GOING TO CHINA!
It happened we got the letter. The magic LOA has arrived. We are finally going to CHINA. That's right folks... up up and away!
The tickets have been purchased, our visa's are being prepared and we are leaving for the far away place that now holds everything dear to us. Our daughter, Lauryn!
We leave on May 22nd! 39 days away! We arrive home on June 3rd.
We are now in the middle of panic, excitement, anxiety, tears of joy and well... panic! I can't believe the day has come and our world as we know it has changed forever!
Lots going on! Wanted to make sure that all that follow our blog were in the loop of Lauryn!
Thanks so much for all the well wishes! We are surrounded with positive, happy, helpful people that we rely on daily!
Is it to early to pack?
Keep Happy
xo

Care packages and more pictures!

2010-03-21T11:16:00.002-04:00

I think I am nesting. One of my dearest friends has mentioned this to me. I think she is right. I am a homebody usually. Lately, all I want to so is be in my house. I don't know why. I want to make it perfect for Lauryn. I want to have everything cleaner than clean, pretty, cozy and just give her the wonderful gift of home. There really is nothing better! I have made lists and more lists about what I want to do, what I should be doing and why it has to be done. I think I am driving Kyle crazy. He just takes it all in stride! Such a great guy!

WE were able to send Lauryn a care package. We used Red Thread China and we were assisted by Ann. She is amazing and I can't say enough about her. We sent Lauryn some pj's, a blanket, a couple of books, a pair of shoes, a disposable camera, a baby doll, Kyle chose an Ernie doll for her, some cakes and tea for the nannies at the orphanage, a photo album and some other little trinkets! We were also able to write her a letter. It is still pretty crazy to us that we are now a Mommy and a Daddy! It's all been so wonderful! I don't think we have had a conversation that hasn't included Lauryn!

Just going through all of our adoption paper work. WOWOWOW! We have done a lot of planning. I guess when are in the thick of it, it just becomes part of your day. When I look at the amount of paper we have accumulated... it's crazy!

Ann from Red Thread sent us some new pictures of baby Lauryn. This seems to be the most recent...

What a beauty! She is all ours... I can't believe.

Alright... back to my nest!

Keep Happy!

One more thing... Baby Carter came into the world on Friday morning! 8:02 he was born. Kyle and I went to see our friends and their new little bundle. He is a beauty! Welcome to the world little guy! xo

WE ARE OUT OF REVIEW

2010-03-10T14:47:00.002-05:00

HUGE step for the Thomson's!
Our LID is out of review.
The CCAA has reviewed files up to and including December 21, 2008!
Our LID (logged in date) is August 26, 2008.

Now we are waiting for our LSC (Letter Seeking Confirmation). This is sent to us from CCAA and once we sign it and send it back to the CCAA they will give us a TRAVEL ANNOUNCEMENT!

Hang on to your hat baby Lauryn! Mommy and Daddy are coming!

Wow!
xo

LOI approved! Here's a little bit about our girl

2010-03-01T22:49:00.003-05:00

We have been in a whirl wind around the Thomson house! On Friday February 19, our SW came and presented Lauryn to us formally. Then our letter of intent was approved by China.

We are now waiting for our dossier to be approved and the ministry of Ontario to approve us specifically for Lauryn. We have our first doctors appointment for Lauryn on March 23 at 11:00.

Here is some information on our girl, Baby Lauryn!

Her birthday is July 12, 2008

She is in Guandong Provice, Shantou City (sp.??)

Her Chinese name is Xiaoxia - pronounced shousha, translates to little shrimp!

She is about 20lbs and 30 inches tall.

She loves the water.

She loves to play outside.

She is cooperative when getting dressed.

She loves company, and will cry when a nanny at the orphanage takes kids away from the playroom (ahhh!)

She is closest to her caregivers. They describe her as a lovely child with a ready smile!

She is a moderate sleeper - interesting... Mommy and Daddy are both DEEEEEEEP sleepers!

She is sometimes impatient and obstinate.

She is active, and can walk when one hand is being held.

She rubs her blanket against her cheek when sleeping. Kyle does this too!

She says "Oh, Oh!" like only a precious almost two year old can!

She knows what NO means! haha!

Her favourite toy is a doll that she cuddles in her arms!

She likes to play on the swings.

She likes to eat fish and veggies, milk paste and congee.

She loves to imitate.

When playing, she will sometimes put a box on her head and giggle!!

She likes to be teased!

Kyle and I are over the moon in love. The support from our family and friends has been amazing! Thank you one and all for making this time so filled with joy!

Thanks especially to my Mom and Dad. We have been up many a night talking about how cute everything she does is.

To my wonderful husband who has never worked harder. You are the light of my life, I am so blessed to be sharing this with you!

Hopefully we will travel in a couple of months to bring our girl home! WOW!

Keep Happy

Kyle and I would like you to meet...

2010-02-18T19:19:00.003-05:00

Our girl! That's right. OUR GIRL. Is she not the most precious, sweet, darling, angelic, smart, curious, miraculous, adoring, lovable little thing that you have ever laid eyes on?

We think so.

This is Lauryn! We got our referral! She will be presented to us formally on Friday!

Her birthday is July 12, 2008! She is about 20 lbs and about 30 inches tall.

Sorry to have been so quiet about all this. I can't hold it in one second more...

We have our daughter!

Thanks to our family and friends for the loads of support and all the well wishes at such a special time.

She is healthy and happy and just like we imagined her to be. Cute as a button!
She looks full of spirit. I think our hearts have grown triple in size overnight. We are so full of emotion its very hard to post.

Wanted to let the world know that we are mere months away from travelling to bring our baby girl home. If only I could put into words what this means to us. We have a dream come true.

Keep Happy everyone.

Citizenship Application

2010-02-03T19:56:00.003-05:00

I am all a glow today!
We received our application to fill out baby Lauryn's citizenship papers!
This whole journey is becoming more real by the minute.
I wish I could say we have travel plans... but not yet.
However, we do have citizenship papers, documents to notarize and fee's to pay! For this I am thankful... we are getting there, one paper, one notarized document and one fee at a time!
YAHOO! Bring on baby!
Kepp Happy!
xo

A little late…

2010-01-18T12:44:00.001-05:00

Just a quick post to wish the best Daddy to be a happy birthday.
Kyle’s birthday was on Friday. It’s been such a busy weekend, that there was just no time to write!
You are going to make one incredible Daddy. I can’t wait to witness the
joys that father-hood will bring.
I really think this is your last birthday without her.
All we have been waiting for is right around the corner! So happy to be travelling down
the roads that we are travelling. The world is right when you are by my side.
The world will be perfect when she is between us and we are each able to hold her little hand!
Happy birthday my love! xo

This just in...

2010-01-09T21:45:00.003-05:00

Many of you who follow our blog, know that we are still waiting for Lauryn.

We have made some major decisions surrounding our adoption. Kyle and I couldn't be happier. We have switched agencies and programs. We should receive our new application with our new agency early next week.

We have decided to go with China's waiting child program. Also known as the SN program. These kids usually have a minor repairable medical condition. Kyle and I have always considered this. We were very opened from the start to parent a child that we felt we could help. I have made many phone calls to professionals that could assist us in the future with possible medical conditions. They have all been so helpful. These phone calls only confirmed that this is the way our adoption journey was suppose to go!

I have heard the wait time could be anywhere from 8-10 months. Lauryn could be home this year!

Thanks to all involved in assisting us with our decision. You're a wonderful group of people. Kyle and I are thrilled!

Hope everyone is keeping warm! It's cold out there!

Keep happy! I don't think we have stopped smiling all week!

Happy New Year!

2009-12-31T17:06:00.003-05:00

Just a quick post to wish each and everyone of you and yours a happy, healthy new year!
Congratulations to those who became parents in 2009.
For those of us still waiting... we are one year closer!
Baby Lauryn, you are loved so much already. In our hearts, we are your parents and you our daughter... hurry home our little dumpling!
To my parents, thank you for another year of support. You enrich our lives and help us remember what is really important. We will be better parents because of you.
To my family, thank you for following our journey through adoption. Thank you for countless telephone calls, cards and kind words. Family is so important. We are so thankful for ours.
To my friends, another year of happy memories! Thanks for being the best group of friends a girl could ask for.
To my husband, we made it another year! Thanks for standing by me, keeping me strong, your silliness, laughter and love fill my life.
Goodbye to 2009... Bring it 2010! We are ready!
Keep happy!
xo

To Baby Lauryn, with love at Christmas from Nana

2009-12-24T15:29:00.002-05:00

My Mom sent this to Lauryn with love for Christmas time. Grab the kleenex! It's far to special to leave as a comment on the blog. Thanks Mom this is very special! Merry Christmas Baby Lauryn!

Nana’s Pearls of Wisdom…

I’ve travelled paths you’ve yet to walk
Learned lessons old and new
And now this wisdom of my life
I’m blessed to share with you.

Let kindness spread like sunshine
Embrace those who are sad.
Respect their dignity, give them joy
And leave them feeling glad.
Forgive those who might hurt you
And though you have your pride,
Listen closely to their viewpoint
Try to see the other side.

Walk softly when you’re angry
Try not to take offense.
Invoke your sense of humour
Laughter’s power is immense!
Express what you are feeling
Your beliefs you should uphold
Don’t shy away from what is right
Be courageous and be bold.
Keep hope right in your pocket
It will guide you day by day.
Take it out when it is needed
When it’s near, you’ll find a way.
Remember friends and family
Of which you are a precious part.
Love deeply and love truly
Give freely from your heart.
The world is far from perfect
There’s conflict and there’s strife
But you still can make a difference
By how you live your life.

And so I’m very blessed to know
The wonders you will do
Because you are my Lauryn
And I believe in you!

Happy Christmas

2009-12-23T11:35:00.003-05:00

To all our family and friends,
Wanted to wish each and everyone of you a very Happy Christmas. I hope you all get a chance to take a deep breath and count your blessings.
We have so much to be thankful for. Our families are healthy, and for the most part happy. We have a beautiful home, which we have filled with our love. We are surrounded by friends and family. Each one who has expressed an interest in our adoption journey and has been there for us to lend an ear, an shoulder, or provide a good laugh!
We all know that this journey is a long one. We still have quite a distance to travel! The support has made it a lot easier. We thank you for this.

It's almost Christmas Eve in China. I can't believe it. It seems like such a special day to talk about baby Lauryn. Although, she really is in our thoughts every day. I don't know how to explain it. She is already born in our hearts. She is ours. She is our daughter... I wonder if she can feel it? I hope so.

To our daughter Lauryn;
Another year is coming to an end. Another year that we have prayed for a speed up! We have talked about you, thought about you, picked up little things for your that we couldn't let slip by. Johnson still knows you are coming. He has "used" some of your toys that are waiting for you in your room. We can't wait to see you two play together. Good news is, Daddy and I have made huge progress in your room. With Nana and Grandpas help you have the most beautiful dresser, a crib, new toys, clothes and a lamp! Lots of books too! You have received some beautiful gifts. Lucky girl! Nana and Grandpa speak of you often. They are telling everyone that will listen that this time next year they may be grandparents. Grandma has bought you several special items from her travels this year. You have two new cousins! Two boys! Baby Alister and Baby Reid. They are beautiful. It makes us even more anxious for your arrival.
Daddy was on a business trip and Grandpa came to stay with me. We went to get a few things at Walmart. We ran into a blogger friend who has just returned home with the most precious baby girl. One day you might get to meet her! Grandpa had tears in his eyes when he was introduced to this little girl. We can't wait until it's our turn to show off our girl. We have such hopes for you. The dreams that your father and I use to share for just us. Have slowly turned into the 3 of us. It warms my heart and keeps the wait bearable!
On Christmas Eve, it seems extra important to tell you how much you are loved. I can't wait for you to be about 8, reading this on the computer and see you roll your eyes. Get use to it kid, your Mom is a sap!
Be a really good girl. Santa is on his way. You have lots of presents at home waiting for you. Lots at Nana and Grandpa's and Grandma's house too! Lucky girl.
Sleep tight my little angel. I hope you feel our love all the way around the world!
You have a safe, warm, comfy home waiting for you. You have two parents that adore you already! A puppy who can't wait to play with you, a cat who will learn to tolerate you and your curiosity! Most importantly... a family. We are so excited, and although the wait is a long one, each day brings us that much closer to holding you!
With all our love,
Mommy and Daddy
Johnson and Peanut too!
xo

Happy Birthday Nana to be!

2009-12-21T20:17:00.002-05:00

Just a quick post to wish the world's best mom and the world's best Nana to be a very happy birthday! Mom, you are everything special to me. You have kissed every hurt away for the last 35 years! Thanks for following our journey through adoption with us. I don't know how we ever would have made it this far without the love and support from our family. You have been our biggest cheerleader, our strongest sounding board and have celebrated all the little milestones that we have met. I can't wait to see you as a Nana! WOW!
Thanks just doesn't seem to cover it. I hope you know that you are not only loved but appreciated on your birthday and always. Thanks Mom. My life wouldn't be the same without you in it. Have a fantastic day! Happy Birthday! Love ya! xo

D..O..N..E.. DONE!

2009-12-13T17:15:00.002-05:00

I think I have set a new record for myself. My Christmas shopping is done! Wa-hoo!
I am going to start wrapping tonight. Wa-hoo! I love Christmas.
Next two weeks are dedicated to baking... any requests? Let me know!
I can't wait to share this with our daughter.

Keep Happy! We are!

Mr. Reid Allan Dustin makes is first appearance!

2009-12-08T11:55:00.004-05:00

Just a quick post to welcome Baby Reid!
My cousin and her husband welcomed their first child last night.
Reid Allan Dustin was born on December 7th at 7:37 p.m. weighing 4lbs, 10 oz.
Although 5 weeks early, mom and son are doing just fine! Dad is too!
Please join me in welcoming Reid to our family!

Congratulations!

If you can, help the ones who don't have a voice!

2009-12-03T10:48:00.002-05:00

Check this out... I know it's a hard time of year for many.
Just remember, anything will help. It's a great cause, AND you could
win a Wii! Pay it forward friends, I just did!
http://tenthlifecats.org/wii/

dotting i's and crossing t's

2009-11-29T19:44:00.002-05:00

Let's face it friends, Christmas is just around the corner. I checked my calendar the other day and we have something planned EVERY weekend until the big day. Don't know how we are going to fit it all in. We all know that some how, some way things all get done.
Today was a great day. I woke up to the delicious smell of pancakes. I came downstairs to the sight of my darling husband in his Christmas pj's and my slippers slaving over a hot griddle. We had breakfast together and then is was time for Christmas to deck our halls. Deck our halls we did! The tree is up. Stair cases and kitchen decorated... Christmas cards are done, just need stamps! Christmas lists are made and Christmas craft project supplies are bought! Now I just need baking supplies, we are having a house full on Boxing Day. Oh yeah, outside needs to be decorated too!
Peanut our cat is curled up under the tree on the tree skirt, Johnson is snoring on the couch. Kyle, the love of my life is eating apple crisp and watching the Grey cup! Life is good! We talked a lot about baby Lauryn today. Wondering what she will think of our Christmas decorating! Wondering what she will think of our traditional pancake breakfast before we put our tree up, and our traditional dinner the same night!
My heart is full of love for my husband, he is amazing and amazes me daily! We had to get everything done this weekend. Kyle leaves on a business trip this week and is gone for 11 days! He's is home for a few days and then off again... oh well, tis the season!
I'm off to hit the showers... it's been a busy day. I'm ready for bed.
Hope everyone had a great weekend.
Be good, Santa is watching... I hope he has a close eye on baby Lauryn... I hope she is home soon.
I love the thought of that little girl (our daughter, OMG!) experiencing Christmas... WOW! I can't wait!
Keep Happy!

From ear to ear

2009-11-24T10:02:00.003-05:00

It's has been a great weekend. We got some very good news yesterday! All the power of positive thinking... not even going to dwell on it... just wanted to make it known that all is well!
Also, seems like the box has changed again. People are out of review up to and including February 29, 2008! More good news.
Keep Happy everyone.
xo

Blog give away time

2009-11-18T18:40:00.001-05:00

Not my blog this time... but check it out. TOOO cute and homemade!
How sweet!

http://lifeinthehammerhome.blogspot.com/2009/11/want-to-win-something-cute.html

Lest We Forget. A Tribute to a Veteran

2009-11-11T22:41:00.001-05:00

This is an amazing story. If memory serves, I think I posted the same one last year. Hope everyone took time to remember today. Keep Happy xo
Remembrance Day
I hope everyone will take the time to remember, because the people that fought for us, they will never forget. Here's an email I got today. It's a pretty incredible story!THE VETERAN ON OUR TEN DOLLAR BILL ... If you look at the back right-hand side of a Canadian $10 bill, you will see an old veteran standing at attention near the Ottawa war memorial. His name is Robert Metcalfe and he died last month at the age of 90.That he managed to live to that age is rather remarkable, given what happened in the Second World War. Born in England, he was one of the 400,000 members of the British Expeditionary Force sent to the mainland where they found themselves facing the new German warfare technique - the Blitzkrieg. He was treating a wounded comrade when he was hit in the legs by shrapnel. En route to hospital, his ambulance came under fire from a German tank, which then miraculously ceased fire. Evacuated from Dunkirk on HMS Grenade, two of the sister ships with them were sunk.Recovered, he was sent to allied campaigns in North Africa and Italy. En route his ship was chased by the German battleship Bismarck. In North Africa he served under General Montgomery against the Desert Fox, Rommel. Sent into the Italian campaign, he met his future wife, a lieutenant and physiotherapist in a Canadian hospital. They were married in the morning by the mayor of the Italian town, and again in the afternoon by a British padre.After the war they settled in Chatham where he went into politics and became the warden (chairman) of the county and on his retirement he and his wife moved to Ottawa. At the age of 80 he wrote a book about his experiences. One day out of the blue he received a call from a government official asking him to go downtown for a photo op. He wasn't told what the photo was for or why they chose him. 'He had no idea he would be on the bill,' his daughter said. And that's the story of the old veteran on the $10 bill

Everything Baby, except... well, the baby!

2009-11-01T19:32:00.005-05:00

Hope everyone had a good Halloween night, filled with tricks and treats! We had about 60 kids. A huge drop from last year. I think when Halloween falls on a Saturday, more people have a party!I can't believe how dark it is! I hate this... I leave for work in the dark and come home in the dark. It makes a long day seem extra long! Oh well, just means that spring is that much closer!My aunt, cousin and mom came down this weekend. We went to the baby show. What an event that was! My cousin is pregnant and as you all know, we are expecting too! It was a great day. It was really the first time that I felt apart of this whole expecting mother thing! The people at the booths were all so happy for Kyle and I. It was really nice. We brought home a bunch of literature, some baby stuff (bibs, bottles, sippy cups and more), and a tonne and a half of free samples. It was great fun. I can't believe the stuff they have for babies and toddlers! It was a fantastic day!

Hope everyone had a good weekend.

Keep Happy!

Good day!

2009-10-30T10:44:00.003-04:00

Hi everyone,
Nothing new to add. It has been one of those weeks where things that could go wrong, they will!
Oh well, I am back on baby Lauryn focus!
My cousin, Aunt and Mom are going to the baby show this weekend. Still a little earlier for us, but it should be fun.
I love daydreaming about her!
On a very happy note one of my adoptive mommy friends and fellow blogger left for China yesterday! She is going to pick up her little girl! Congratulations Catherine! We send you all the love and best wishes that we can. You've certainly been on my mind! Can't wait to see those pictures! wow!
Hope everyone has a Happy Halloween! TGIF!
Keep well!
xo

oops

2009-10-15T08:37:00.001-04:00

it's just the pre-evaluation tonight... Johnson and I were studying for nothin'!
I will keep you posted!
Keep Happy!
xo

D Day!

2009-10-14T19:47:00.001-04:00

Johnson's St. John's Ambulance Dog Therapy test is tomorrow night!
Wish us luck!

The box changed... it's not a rumour anymore!

2009-10-10T19:52:00.002-04:00

Happy Thanksgiving!
The box changed...
Files have been reviewed up to and including December 31, 2007... YES!

CCAA Status
Reviewed through: December 31, 2007
Placed through: March 24, 2006

it's been awhile...gobble gobble

2009-10-10T11:08:00.002-04:00

Hi everyone,
It's been a long time since I have been on here! Sorry, things have been so busy. I have been on a business trip and I am back! Back in action.
Lot's to tell you all.
Johnson has his test date for St. John's Ambulance Dog Therapy program coming up. I don't know they exact date, there were three dates to choose, and the final date will be the date that works for the most people. I will keep you posted.
We are very excited!
There is a rumour on the China Adopt Talk website that files have been reviewed until the end of December! Meaning that 2008 files will start to be reviewed. How exciting is that?
That's amazing news. Woo-hoo!
I have been summoned for Jury Duty!
Craziness!
It's Thanksgiving. The best holiday of the whole year. This holiday has nothing to do with gifts. Just a lot of family and a whole lotta turkey! My parents, grandmother and aunt are coming tomorrow. Looking forward to seeing everyone.
This year has just flown by! I can't believe it's already Thanksgiving.
This year I am most thankful for the love and support of my wonderful family. Kyle and I have always been surrounded by support. Through our entire adoption journey, we have been so fortunate for the support of our families.
I hope everyone finds the one thing that they are most thankful for this year, and that you are lucky enough to surround yourself with whatever makes you happiest.
I can't wait to see a highchair at our thanksgiving table.
Hang on Baby Lauryn...not long now.
I am also thankful for my dreams... each night, I see my sweet daughters face. I picture her snuggled down, in footie pj's after a bath between Kyle and I in our bed. Johnson and Peanut at the foot of our bed (clearly, we will need a bigger bed when this becomes reality!) and we all get cozy and tickle her tummy, tell her how much we love her, and how we've waited for these nights!
I truly wonder what the next year might bring.
Happy, Happy Thanksgiving to all of you.
xo

St. John's Ambulance Dog Therapy Program

2009-09-10T08:47:00.004-04:00

I have been doing a lot of thinking in the last year and a bit. Don't know about you guys, but I guess infertility has changed me. For a long time I blamed myself. It was all my problem. Kyle was so supportive and slowly but surely I was able to get some what of a sense of humour about our troubles. The world is a different place again. One of my very dear family members wrote in one of her comments that the ifs have finally turned into whens... what a great way to put it. Thanks Stac! Anyway... It has changed me. I think that I have always been a pretty good person but our struggles have made me want to be a better person. I have always had a desire to help people. I love animals and most people! So, I have put them together. I have my first meeting with St. John's Ambulance Dog Therapy program! I have signed Johnson up. As long as he can pass the canine aptitude test! We have to commit an hour a week. We start at an old age home and once we've been in the program for a year, we can ask to volunteer for sick children!
Wish us luck! Johnson doesn't come with me tonight. I will keep you posted!

A message from above?

2009-09-01T13:46:00.002-04:00

It would have been my Grampy's 90th birthday today. Sadly, my grandfather passed 11 years ago. He was hospitalized the day after my wedding. I was very close to my Grampy and my Nana, who our family lost the year after. We were given the opportunity to say goodbye to my grandfather. When I went into the room with Kyle, I placed a small silver heart on his chest. I whispered for him to take it with him.I guess he took the advice, and for years our family has been finding hearts everywhere! Unexplained places like new cars, or closets and other crazy places. It's been awhile since we have seen any. Last night, my Dad found one. Picture attached. I guess it's Grampy just checking in! My mom has requested that this picture be posted. I can't think of a better good luck charm, then our sign from above that all is going according to plan!

Oh happy day!

2009-09-01T09:06:00.002-04:00

Files are reviewed through until October 31, 2007!
Getting closer!

Keep Happy everyone!

tick tock tick tock

2009-08-30T21:56:00.002-04:00

I found this website that will calculate the time between two dates right to the second! It's all about the wait...
People have been matched with their China babies up to and including March 24, 2006... our LID (log in date) is August 26, 2008. So that means:
From and including: Friday, March 24, 2006 To, but not including : Tuesday, August 26, 2008
It is 886 days from the start date to the end date, but not including the end date
Or 2 years, 5 months, 2 days excluding the end date
Alternative time units 886 days can be converted to one of these units:
76,550,400 seconds
1,275,840 minutes
21,264 hours
126 weeks (rounded down)...

Patience is a virtue!
Keep Happy!

Meet Flipper! Yes, the REAL Flipper!

2009-08-29T23:09:00.002-04:00

Kyle and I swam with dolphins when we were in Bahamas. This is one of my favourite memories. I can't wait to watch the movie with baby Lauryn and then show her the pictures.
We were lucky enough to meet 3 of the dolphins. Our dolphin's real name is Jake and he is 27 years old! He was playful and fun and very entertaining!
It was one of the most amazing experiences of my life. I am working on the other photos... but had to get this one up ASAP!

And the winner is...

2009-08-29T11:09:00.002-04:00

Lucky number 8! Congratulations Adrian!
I used a random number generator at random.org.
NUMBER 8 is the winner!
Some books sent with love from me to you are on their way!
I will email you for your mailing address.
Just a quick post as I am determined to win the battle between camera vs. computer!
Keep Happy everyone!

Signs... am I reading to much into this?

2009-08-27T08:31:00.002-04:00

Last night we celebrated our one year LID anniversary. We ordered Chinese food (what originals!) and had a pretty relaxing night. THEN it was fortune cookie time.
You know what my fortune said...
A letter of great importance will be coming to you soon...
How cool is that! If I could figure out my camera vs. computer, I would take a picture of it.
Let's see if fortune cookie fortunes are accurate.
I am certainly not expecting our referral, but getting out of review would be kinda nice!
At any rate... one step closer!
Don't forget our LID giveaway... still time. The winner will be selected Saturday!
Keep Happy!

Tim and Stacey you are in my thoughts today!!

One Year LID today - BLOG GIVEAWAY!!

2009-08-26T10:34:00.004-04:00

365 days of waiting, wishing, hoping, dreaming, crying, laughing, and talking about our beautiful baby girl who will be forever ours soon! When is the big question, we don't know this yet! I think I have said before that we know Lauryn WILL come home which is so much better than not knowing if we'd ever be parents! We are that much closer... and couldn't be happier. Kyle and I just got back from the Bahamas, and as soon as I can figure out why why computer will not recognize my camera, I will download our pictures! I was up far to late last night trying to figure this out. I am paying the price this morning.
We wanted to celebrate our one year LID date. SO... please leave a comment if you would like to participate. Please include your email address in your comment. If you are chosen (winner will be chosen randomly), I will email you for your address and send you a couple of children's books to start or add to your collection! Winner will be chosen Saturday August 29. I figure this gives you lots of time to comment, and buys me a little more time to try and figure out my camera and computer!
Good luck!

Almost Happy Anniversary

2009-08-19T13:18:00.004-04:00

It will be our 11th wedding anniversary on Saturday August 22.

I married my best friend and my one true love. We both never thought that the past 11 years would have taken us to the places we've been. Good times and bad times, sickness and health has been our marriage!

Kyle, you are an amazing generous kind man. You still make my heart skip a beat. I love your smile, your eyes and the way you have shown me your love. You truly are everything I could have asked for. Thank you for being all you are, our little Lauryn will have an amazing father who will teach her how to do right from wrong, to stand up for herself and to follow her dreams. Together we will show her our true love, and how life with a wonderful partner will bring on endless possibilities. Years ago I would dream of our child... will she have your eyes, my nose, your fingers etc. Although this won't be possible for our child, what will be possible is that she will have your sense of humour, your smarts, your pride and the way your good examples of how lead your life. We are blessed beyond measure. Although the wait for our little one continues, I count my blessings everyday to be walking beside a man who will protect me, laugh with me, love me and continue to hold my hand through the peaks and valleys! Kyle, you are my best friend, people are better off for knowing you, and I am better off for loving you.

Forever and a day, always yours,

Your loving wife,

Lisa

One year ago today

2009-08-18T11:39:00.003-04:00

our files were received in Beijing. That's pretty incredible!

files sent: August 15, 2008
received: August 18, 2008
logged in: August 26, 2008

Our 1 year LID anniversary is August 26, 2009. I wonder how long we have left? I wonder who our baby is! The good news is, I don't have to wonder if we will be parents anymore. What a great feeling that is! I will write more when we get back from our trip. Thanks so much to our family and friends who have offered 365 days of support! 24/7.

Paradise built for two

2009-08-12T21:40:00.005-04:00

So... the last couple of years through countless infertility treatments and the whole roller coaster ride of international adoption, Kyle and I dreamt of a vacation for the two of us.

We would talk ourselves into it, then right out of it again.

We have no time, no money, no vacation... blah blah blah... the story of every 30 something couple right? RIGHT!

Well today we did it... we were totally selfish! We are leaving for the BAHAMAS on Thursday.... I can't believe it's real! We need this and so deserve it... so we did it. Thanks to Nana and Grandpa to be, they have totally rearranged their schedules to watch Johnson and Peanut...

Our last trip before we become parents... amazing!

Not quite over the hill... but

2009-07-28T10:20:00.002-04:00

35... Monday I will be 35. I can't believe it. the big 30 was never that big of a deal. EVER. I didn't feel old. Now is a different story. 35 is bothering me. Big-time. I know it's not old... especially when you are referring to someone else. But ME... really... 35. Yup! It bothers me. I thought my life would somehow turn out different. I thought I would be a mom by now. (I guess in some ways I am!) I thought I would be consumed by a toss up of sesame street and grade school woes. In some ways I knew my life would be exactly what it is. I knew I would, and still would be married to my best friend! I knew I would surround myself with a few close friends and family that are more like siblings, people that truly make me happy. I knew that my relationship with my parents would continue to grow and be very special. I knew that I would be happy. I am happy... old, but happy! Me 35... Monday... wow!

11 and counting!

2009-07-26T22:11:00.002-04:00

Nothing new to report! Just wanted to mark our 11 month being logged in.
That much closer!
Kinda neat to think that we are almost a whole year closer to our Lauryn coming home!

New Look!

2009-07-14T22:56:00.001-04:00

I figured it was time for an upgrade! Let me know what you think of the new look!
Keep Happy!

August 31, 2007

2009-07-06T08:23:00.002-04:00

The box has changed! Kyle and I are currently logged in, in China and waiting for our file to be reviewed, then we wait to be matched with our baby Lauryn!
I follow rumour queens website. The website indicated that files up to and including August 31, 2007 are out of review! The CCAA seems to be reviewing about 3 months worth of files every month... pretty exciting. I can't wait to be out of review. One year and counting. Still baby steps, but I will take em'! This has totally made my day!
Keep happy!

Happy Canada Day!

2009-07-01T21:54:00.002-04:00

I hope everyone got a chance to enjoy this day! Kyle and I totally took advantage and slept in BIG TIME! Once we got up and at em' we took Johnson for a long walk on a trail by our house. He surprised us both by jumping right in the water! We had a great time.

My aunt, cousin and her daughter stopped by for a quick visit. They were visiting family in Belleville, and on the way home they stopped for a cup of tea. My cousin and her daughter are moving to Australia! I wish them all the luck in the world. It was so nice to see them, hard to say goodbye though! Bittersweet!
Back to work tomorrow!

Happy Canada Day everyone!
Keep happy!

1,2,3,4,5,6,7,8,9...

2009-06-26T14:24:00.003-04:00

months and counting...

I think it's safe to say that we are one third of the way there!

Have a wonderful weekend everyone!

Happy Father's Day

2009-06-23T11:19:00.002-04:00

A little late on this post, but better late then never!
Nothing really new to report! Still waiting!
Kyle spent his Father's Day (in waiting) fishing! Baby Lauryn, Johnson and Peanut bought Kyle a new fishing rod, and a tackle box! He loved them!
I spent some time with my dear Dad. I had a couple of days off and went to visit my Mom and Dad. I had a lovely time. Took my Dad to the golf course and Kyle and I bought him a new driver. He was thrilled. We had a couple of really nice BBQ dinners and also tried our luck at Bingo! My Mom, Aunts and cousins (all mother/daughter teams!) went to play Bingo. Between us, we came home with $29 each! Although I didn't add to our shared jackpot, I was sure I was going to win! LOL!
Keep Happy!

Happy Birthday Grandpa to be!

2009-06-10T08:21:00.002-04:00

Today my hero turns 60! My dad is 60 today! Happy Birthday DAD!
What can I say about my Dad. He is funny, helpful, and generous with his time. He never wants to see people in pain. Has a soft spot for children and pets, and knows how to laugh at himself. He has taught me right from wrong, lead by example and has always provided a safe and honest place that I could (and still can!) call home!
He has helped me in ways that I can't put into words. He has also allowed me to be who I am, never questioning my judgement, but always there to pick up the pieces. Both my mom and dad have played a huge part in our adoption. My greatest joy, will be dropping our daughter off at Nana and Grandpas, knowing that she will get to experience the unconditional love that you've always given both Kyle and I.
Thanks Dad. Have wonderful birthday. Everyone who knows you, knows just how well you deserve it! I love you. xo

NOW it's 9 months and one day...

2009-05-27T08:57:00.002-04:00

I forgot when I screwed up our LID to change the lilypie ticker at the top of the bog... so now it's officially 9 months and 1 day. Do you think it's safe to say that we are 1/3rd of the way there?

9 months today! Holy!

2009-05-18T14:40:00.002-04:00

Today we celebrate our 9 month LID date... 9 months!
Although this "pregnancy" is probably going to be longer than a elephants, we are happy.
We know that baby Lauryn will soon make her appearance, and until that day, we wait.
We are happy, healthy and have so much to celebrate and to be thankful for. Trust me... we are!
Sometimes we just have to take stock in our blessings.
I wish everyone a happy long weekend. I hope you can all take the time to count the things that you are thankful for. My wish is that you lose count, because there is just so much!
Happy long weekend!
With love,
The Thomson's
xo

Mom's the word!

2009-05-11T10:31:00.000-04:00

Happy Mother's Day. I am a very lucky girl. Not only to I have the world's greatest Mom, but also the world's greatest husband.
I have the world's greatest Dad, Dog, Cat and friends and family too!!!
Let me round out the weekend for you...
I came home on Friday and the house was full of tulips!
There was a note attached to one of the bunches that said Happy Mama's Day, Love Baby Lauryn. See you soon. xoxox
There was also a "I love my Mommy" bib. Kyle, you are the world's most thoughtful husband. I adore you! Thanks for making my day special!
Friday night my parents came down. They stayed the night, and on Saturday Mom and I went to get our hair done. That's what we do for Mother's Day. My treat!
Then we did some shopping and just caught up! It was nice.
Sunday we went to see Kyle's mom and my Grandmother. We had a great dinner at my parents place, and just hung out. It was really nice.
The weather wasn't that great, but the company made up for it!

I feel in my heart that our baby is out there. I just hope she can feel our love too. Sometimes I could just scream with how frustrating the wait has been. Other times I am totally fine with it. I guess that's pretty normal!
I just want my baby home. I want her to know that she is loved, and she will never want for anything that she needs! A pony might be a want, but one that we will have to negotiate! LOL! Truthfully, we can't be certain that Baby Lauryn is even born yet. If she is and she is waiting in the orphanage, it breaks my heart to think that she is crying without being held, hungry without being fed. I am sure they do the best they can. I can't wait to bring our little girl home. I hope I am half the mother that my mother has been to me. She is the worlds most kind, gentle, brilliant, funny beautiful mother in the whole world. Thank you for shaping me, thank you for allowing me to be who I wanted, and thank you most for supporting me in our adoption journey. I love you Mom. Happy Mother's Day! xo

To all the mother's out there. Regardless of what part of the journey your are on, remember that your baby is out there. You've come this far. Each day you get a little closer. Good luck with the rest of your journey. For those of you with babies already. Congratulations. I can't wait to be part of the club!
xo

Patio Laterns

2009-04-24T21:24:00.002-04:00

Okay.... so the weather is suppose to be AMAZING this weekend! Kyle brought the patio set out of hibernation to celebrate!
We got a new bbq grill and we are ready!
Mom and my cousin are coming for the weekend. We are going to do some scrapbooking and take a look around Pickering flea market. Should be fun.
I think I might start Lauryn's life book. Now that our paper chase is done, I want to start filling in her life book. That way when she is home, we can concentrate on things on all her firsts when she's home. So if I get the paper chase portion of her life book complete, it won't be quite as overwhelming! Big plans! Wish me luck!
I hope everyone will get a chance to enjoy the highly awaited beautiful weekend!
Keep Happy!

Hippity Hop

2009-04-12T08:55:00.002-04:00

Happy Easter everyone!
We had a lovely family dinner last night. Way to much food! Goodness!
Lot's of leftovers! We will be eating turkey all week!
To our dear baby Lauryn. Your Easter basket isn't empty. Nana bought you a new pair of shoes. They are beautiful. They have bluebirds on them and are so cute!
Thanks Nana!
So, the Thomson family will be nursing turkey hangovers today. We will all have an afternoon nap I am sure! Sweet dreams of baby Lauryn are the name of the game today!
I hope everyone is enjoying their Easter weekends.
Keep Happy...Keep Hoppy! haha!

Shingles aren't only for roof tops!

2009-04-05T21:44:00.002-04:00

I've been feeling under the weather lately. Thought it was just a common cold. Something that needed to run its course. I went to the doctor on Saturday. I needed a note to cover my absence at work for the better part of Thursday and Friday.
As it turns out I have shingles! Adult chicken pox. What the...
Can you imagine?
So, I am home bound for a couple of more days. Bored out of my mind. I am in some pain, and the couch isn't all that exciting. I just want to do something. Truthfully, I don't have the energy to do anything! I am pretty grumpy! LOL! I have almost finished a really great book. It's called China Ghosts. It's an adoption tale from the fathers prospective. A gift from a friend at work. It is pretty amazing. I've really enjoyed it!
Just a quick update. Nothing really new to report. We are still waiting... however, for this part of the wait, I am covered in spots on my left side!
Keep Happy!

Tag! I'm it!

2009-04-02T07:59:00.002-04:00

The following entry was what I was tagged with! Thanks Krista! This is fun!!
Tagged! April 1, 2009
So here it goes!
What’s my obsession at the moment: working out! I'm trying to get UBER healthy! It's so hard!
What am I wearing right now: black dress pants, black cami, and a grey cardigan. I'm at work!
Who did I gave a hug, the last time: My husband, before I left for work today
What I would change: My wait time for my baby girl!!
What I’m eating tonight: Something quick... it's a great TV night!!!
My last purchase: A soccer ball for my niece
To which sound I’m listening at the moment: The quiet of my office until everyone gets in!
Favorite weather: Warm fall days
My goal: To be the most interesting person I know!
What I’m definitely going to do in this life: Raise a baby girl, teach her the best that we can.
Say something to the person who tagged you: Krista, I think you are amazing. I am looking forward to meeting you. I am thrilled for you and your family and LOVE following your journey. I think you are crafty and talented!
Favorite vacation spot: Cottage up north
Favorite tea flavor: I'm a tetley girl!
The book I’m reading right now: Keeping Faith. Jody Picoult
What’s giving me a lot of pleasure but at the same time guilty feelings: hmmm, I don't know about this one!
Which quality I’d like to have: I’d love to be sporty - but alas I am not. Krista... me too, there isn't an athletic bone in my body! haha!
What am I waiting for: Baby Lauryn!
What was the last thing you have won: A free ticket on Super 7!
What would your perfect day be: Getting up early and driving with Kyle (and Lauryn and Johnson) to go and visit my parents. Taking Lauryn and Johnson for a walk by the river, with our family and BBQ'ing on the patio. Just hanging out!
What did you have for breakfast?: rye toast and peanut butter...
That was so much FUN!!!

Spring has sprung!

2009-03-21T16:20:00.003-04:00

Welcome Spring! After a long winter, I can't wait a minute longer. Yesterday was the first day of spring and I took a vacation day to celebrate!
A long weekend is sometimes better than anything!
It's been a pretty productive weekend. Just looked at our counter and we made the 7 month mark. Holy! I sometimes lose track, and then take a look and can't believe it!
We are going to visit my Mom and Dad tomorrow. It's tax time, Mom is our make shift accountant! Thanks Mom!
It amazes me how my mother is so many things! She really knows how to do just about anything, and if she doesn't' she learns! What a woman! I hope I am half the Mom that she has always been to me!
Feeling a little emotional lately. Not really sure what that's about, but the smallest things bring tears to my eyes. I guess it's just those winter blues. Well, goodbye old man winter, not sure I will miss you much!
Our dear Johnson has started to linger a little longer outside... it must be spring. The muddy paws are a sure indicator. Our cat Peanut has even taken an interest in the deck.
I hope that this random post finds you and yours well and enjoying the sun!
Keep happy!

blah, blah, blah

2009-03-12T08:24:00.002-04:00

I think I am suffering from the blah's... it's still so cold outside! It's been a long, cold, dark winter.
When I get up it's really dark. Even Johnson is to tired to really do anything in the morning!
I let him out, he has a quick pee and then back inside. He gets his cookie and before I even have the kettle boiled he's upstairs in bed curled up with Kyle!

Nothing new to report at all.
Just a quick update to let you all know that the Thomson's are still hanging in!

I hope we all get a chance to enjoy the predicted sunshine this weekend!

6 months and counting

2009-02-18T22:24:00.002-05:00

So far this "pregnancy" has been a breeze... no morning sickness, no aches, no pains... some tears, but mostly thankful that we are in que for our baby girl!
6 months we've been waiting for our referral... I can't believe it!

My heart is full

2009-02-12T22:21:00.003-05:00

Wanted to write a quick post. We have a pretty busy weekend coming up. Wanted to wish everyone a happy heart day! Some people think that this is just a hallmark holiday. I tend to agree, but still want to let my loved ones know that they are loved on valentines day and always.

Also wanted to welcome a new member to our family. My cousin gave birth to her second baby boy on Wednesday. Welcome to the world Allister (sp??) still have to check on that one. Their first son Declan is thrilled with his new big brother role. I am pleased to report that everyone is happy and healthy.

My adoptive mommy friend Krista and her husband seem to be settling into parenthood rather well. Congratulations!

My husband is home from yet another business trip.

My family is all happy and healthy. As I am sure you all know, we are eagerly awaiting our Lauryn's arrival. Therefore, my heart is full!

I got this email at work today. I love it, and wanted to share it.

Someone will always be prettier.
Someone will always be smarter.

Some of their houses will be bigger.

Some will drive a better car.

Their children will do better in school.

And their husband will fix more things around the house.

So let it go, and love you and your circumstances.

Think about it!

The prettiest woman in the world can have hell in her heart.

The most highly favored woman on your job may be unable to have children.

The richest woman you know, she's got the car, the house, the clothes~ might be lonely.

And the word says, 'If I have not Love, I am nothing.' So, again, love you. Love who you are. Look in the mirror in the morning and smile and say, 'I am too Blessed to be Stressed

and too Anointed, to be Disappointed!'

'Winners make things happen~~ Losers let things happen.' Be 'Blessed'

It just keeps getting better!

2009-02-04T18:46:00.003-05:00

Although there isn't anything new to report on our end... We are still waiting and busy trying to decide the details of the nursery. We have all the time and let me tell you a million ideas!

We will begin working on the nursery in the summer. I can't wait!

On a really happy note my adoptive mommy friend and her husband, had their forever family day and they are in the process of flying home. I can not put into words how happy it makes me.

This adoption roller coaster is a crazy ride. The blogs that people publish are like counselling!

I think everyone who is going through this can relate. There have been a couple of blogs that I follow like a religion and "the robinsons are waiting" is an amazing read! Their journey has been overwhelming and exciting! It brings to reality that we all have babies out there and soon, we will be celebrating our magic moments, our forever family days and the long flight home.

Welcome Home Robinson Family of 3! Can't wait to read the next part of your journey. I also can't wait for you to read ours!

And baby makes 3!

So nice

2009-01-30T12:17:00.002-05:00

Congratulations to my adoptive mommy friend. She and her DH met their beautiful boy today! They will be coming home from South Korea soon! The pictures are beautiful and it's really nice to see their "Magic Moment" come to life! We are so happy for them!
I have been on vacation all week! it's been amazing.
My Dad came to stay with me for a bit, he helped me help the handyman we hired!
We have some beautiful new faucets and light fixtures... and toilet seats! Kyle gets home tonight from a business trip. I can't wait to see him and see what he things of the new stuff!
I started a cross stitch for the nursery. It's a really small one. Good thing... it's going to take me forever. Slow and steady wins the race!
I love having vacation! This week has been great. My cousins are coming for a visit and a catch up, and it will be so nice!
Back to reality on Monday!
I should really go and buy some lottery tickets!

Kung Hei Fat Choy- Happy New Year Baby Lauryn!

2009-01-23T16:04:00.003-05:00

Happy New Year! This is the year of the Ox!
OX 1925, 1937, 1949, 1961, 1973, 1985, 1997

Ox people are hard-working and persistent, they can stick at a task longer and go at it harder than anybody. They believe in themselves and tend to classify almost everything into two basic categories, bad and good. They hold up their high standards as a model and severely judge those who don't aspire to maintain these same ideals.
Ox people are not social or party animals, they tend to be quiet when in a party. Although appears to be tranquil, in fact, Oxens are ponderous but impulsive when angry. They are capable of fearsome rages, therefore, it is better not to cross an Oxen.
Ox people are observant, they have remarkable memories and are good at reporting on absolutely everything they observe. Go ask an Oxen if he remembers who were at the party 8 months ago, most likely, he will name them one by one to you.
In the home, the Ox is a great guy to have around. In business, the OX can succeed in the arts, a contracting business, or an estate., thanks to their creative nature. And since an Ox is intelligent and good at his hands, he can be a good surgeon as well.
Ox people are stubborn and dogmatic, they believe in their decision and will never regret. They are also very close to their families. disappointingly, Oxens often find that those who are close to them fail to understand them. Nevertheless, they are patient, and caring and that makes the Oxen the best friend you can ever have.
Oxens are very responsible and loyal. Ox people are seldom jealous. but they will be jealous of their rights; and the fidelity of a husband or a wife is one of their rights. They are very family-oriented, conservative and faithful.

I was wrong, but it's all good!

2009-01-20T19:04:00.002-05:00

So, we got an update from our agency today. Looks like I was wrong. I had originally posted stating that our LID was August 18... turns out it's August 26. Our files were sent August 15, received August 18 and logged in August 26.
They are stating that the wait is currently 34 months from your log in date. That would mean our referral would come around May 2011! It sounds sooo far away!! Yikes. So, I ate some cookies and dried my tears. I am back to battle the wait.
I am okay with this. Really, really I am. We have so much to do, and we want to do it right. So, I am okay with this. However... I just want our baby girl home.
On the plus side, there are lots of events coming up through our agency. I hope we are able to attend some of them!
I think it's just the week. It's dark, cold and there is so much snow. Time for some me time!
Goodness knows I have the time for it! LOL!
For all the families waiting for their children, I wish you all lots of love and best wishes.
For all those lucky ones who have their children... enjoy every second!
Keep warm everyone... it's cold out there!

Happy Birthday Daddy to be!

2009-01-15T11:03:00.002-05:00

Just a quick note to wish my darling husband Kyle a very happy birthday.
I hope this is a year of dreams coming true for you!
I can't wait until our daughter is in charge of making your birthday cake! Knowing you, you'd eat the whole thing if she used salt instead of sugar. You will make a great Daddy!
You are my very best friend, my one true love, and so supportive!
With love today and always. xoxo

Also, it's with great pleasure that I announce that my adoptive mommy friend and her husband got the call that they are travelling! They will hold their dear son very soon.
Congratulations!

New Year, new look?!?

2009-01-13T21:10:00.000-05:00

Whatcha think?

Bring it '09!

2009-01-10T15:17:00.001-05:00

Nothing new to report, it's still a hurry up and wait game. You know what, I'm okay with that! For the time being anyway. Kyle and I are in the middle of some home renos! Nothing major, just some stuff to make our lives a bit easier, and our home a bit homier (if that's even a word!) Well... when they are all done our lives will be a bit easier LOL!
Kyle has been super busy. I mean BUSY! He travels for business a LOT in January. It's awesome for him. He eats, sleeps and breaths his job. I wish I could love my job that much! Don't get me wrong I do love my job, but it certainly doesn't spill over into any extra curricular activities that I do. For Kyle, it's everything. It's one of the things I love most about him. He's so passionate about his work.
My Mom and Dad have been a huge help. Not sure January would run as smoothly if they weren't as helpful. So, just a little shout out to Mom and Dad. Thanks for all you do! I hope that Kyle and I are half the parents you've been to me... well to us!
The nursery should be empty and ready to tackle by the end of January. I can't wait! I just have to remember that our champagne idea's and our beer budget need to meet somewhere in the middle! So like the title says... Bring it '09... we are ready.

Happy New Year

2008-12-31T18:20:00.000-05:00

Happy New Year to all our family and friends.
I can't wait to see what '09 will bring our family! Hopefully, there will be an extra place setting at our table sometime in the new year. However, if it takes longer, it takes longer.
We will wait for you!
Happy '09 baby Lauryn. We hope you are happy and healthy and heading home soon.
With lots of love and best wishes to all!
Bring it on '09!
xo